Don't talk about children's sadness.
If you know something bad about the other person recently, don't mention it in the conversation, otherwise it will cause the other person's disgust and discomfort.
Looking for common topics
Not saying much means that if you want to communicate effectively with others, you must find speculators, that is, people with common interests. Therefore, the focus of effective communication with people is to have more common topics.
Full of confidence
In the process of communicating with others, you should show your confidence between the lines. When others feel your confidence, communication is basically half the battle, so we should be confident when communicating with our children and make them more confident when speaking.
use wits
Communication is an activity that relies heavily on emotional intelligence, but in the process of communicating with people, the requirements for IQ are also very high. You should know how to answer the questions asked by the other party skillfully and politely.
Speak sincerely.
Everything has a degree that others can accept, but beyond this degree, it will leave a handle on people. Don't be too grandiose, or you will leave a bad impression. There must be nine truths in ten sentences, so if you lie too much, you will lose your integrity and no one will believe you anymore.
Speak bluntly and modestly.
When we talk to others about certain communication occasions, we should speak roundly and straight, which will make them feel embarrassed. Even if it is our own fault, to put it mildly, it will leave us room for manoeuvre and achieve the purpose of our conversation calmly.