1. Excessive authoritative education methods will make children live under the strict management of their parents from an early age, and then become timid and introverted. When they encounter a little thing, they will be afraid of being punished by their parents In the long run, children see their parents like mice see cats, either avoiding or worrying. Parents should care more about their children, pay attention to their experiences, listen patiently when their children encounter things, and give them enough time and space to give full play to their thinking space and problem-solving ability, instead of using authority to attack their initiative and creativity, making them more and more timid and afraid to express their true thoughts.

2. Autocratic educational methods, where squeezed, will resist. On the surface, the over-authoritative family education method looks good. What happens in private? Although children don't question their parents' rules, many people don't think so. They feel that their parents are domineering, not worldly, and do not know how to cherish their parents. Children who grow up in such a family atmosphere seem to obey their parents unconditionally on the surface. Once they leave their parents' field of vision, they will lose their original appearance, become more and more selfish, lack trust in people around them or passers-by, and persist in solving problems according to their own thinking mode, which is likely to cause vigilance and dissatisfaction.

3. The laissez-faire education model On the hot issue of education, some parents have adopted the method of accepting all the regulations explicitly put forward by their children for no reason and doing business with their children 65,438+0,000%. It can be said that there are no mandatory rules for their children, and even if there are, they can't be observed anytime and anywhere. That kind of education will make children become little princes or princesses at home, give them whatever they want, be self-centered and develop the bad habit of being selfish and independent. Such children have poor psychological endurance and self-control, and once their parents leave for a new natural environment, they can't communicate with other people of the same age.

4. Ignoring educational methods Parents are too busy to have much time to care and teach their children. Children either live with the elderly or see their parents once a day. There is little communication between parents and children, and children will grow up without love and warmth, and become more and more introverted and unconfident, which is not conducive to the stability and development trend of family relations.