First, learn more about children. Parents should take time to communicate with their children and get to know them.
Second, listen to the children patiently. When children make mistakes, listen to their ideas and find ways to help them solve their problems.
Third, really put down your body. Avoid using authoritative education when educating children. Children in the 1990s all have the value that everyone is equal. If authoritative education is used, it will not only fail to achieve results, but it will be even more difficult for parents to educate their children in the future.
Fourth, negotiate with children. For example, children are going to an amusement park, and you happen to have an important meeting that day. You can negotiate with your children and take a step back, instead of blindly asking them to accommodate their parents.
Fifth, ignore teaching when children are angry. People lose their minds when they are angry, so they can divert their attention first. When I am a little calmer, I will have a good talk with my children.
Sixth, correct expectations for children. Your child is only 15 years old. Don't ask children to meet standards that even adults can't do. And don't compare with children of the same age, it will make children lose confidence.
Seven, treat children sincerely. Some parents always like to use a tone of accusation or command when communicating with their children, which often makes it difficult for children to accept. The communication between parents and children should be sincere and there is no distance. Parents can let their children know how they feel, and let them know that his behavior will make you sad or make you worry. Don't let him think that his behavior only makes you angry.
Children's future is in their own hands, not in the hands of their parents. Children are the main body of growth, and parents are just crutches. Perhaps the most important thing you learn from the novel is to study hard. You are much more anxious about his study than about himself. Stop preaching and set an example. Usually study more at home and have less fun. Parents regard learning as fun, and their children naturally follow suit. Ask him what he wants, how to plan his life, listen more and talk less, and give him some encouragement after listening. Offer positive praise and encouragement, even if you think he can't do it, your approval is very important to him. Trust the child. He is a small sapling and will grow up by himself. His current plan may not be appropriate, but as long as it is positive, it is enough. He will adjust himself when he meets obstacles, and his learning ability is unlimited. Just killed by many parents, distrust and criticism are the main means. Let me go. He will go by himself, he will be happy and his parents will be relaxed. Can you imagine how much endurance it takes to hold a two-year-old child all the time?