First, communicate with your daughter patiently. Try to understand why she is disobedient and what her thoughts and feelings are. By listening to her opinions and ideas, you can better understand her needs and interests, so as to better guide her behavior.
Secondly, establish clear rules and boundaries. Let the daughter know what can and cannot be done, and make clear the consequences. At the same time, make sure your daughter understands the reasons for these rules and boundaries and let her know why these rules are necessary.
Third, give your daughter proper time and space. Give your daughter enough time to explore, learn and grow, and at the same time give her enough space to make mistakes and make corrections. When appropriate, give her encouragement and support, and let her feel that you are always by her side.
Fourth, give your daughter appropriate behavior rewards. When the daughter behaves well, give her appropriate rewards, such as praise, compliments, small gifts or privileges. This will encourage her to continue to maintain good behavior and strengthen your relationship with her.
Finally, establish a close relationship with your daughter. Establish a good communication and trust relationship with your daughter and let her know that you are her supporter and mentor. Establishing a close relationship between you and your daughter can help you better understand her needs and ideas, and thus better guide her behavior.
In short, educating disobedient daughters requires patience, understanding and intimacy. By establishing clear rules and boundaries, giving appropriate time and space, rewarding good behavior and establishing close contact with your daughter, you can help you educate your daughter better and make her more obedient and mature.