Children are always the first in parents' minds, and parents always like to make decisions for their children. When there is friction between parents and children's views, parents always arbitrarily deny their children and affirm themselves, knowing that this has caused great harm to their children. Parents should respect their children, learn to put themselves in their own shoes, and negotiate contradictions with an objective attitude, which will help cultivate children to dare to think and express their ideas.
2. Stimulate children's interest.
Interest is the mentor of children's growth. Parents should be good at discovering the advantages of their children, don't criticize everything about their children decisively, kill their interest at will, encourage their children to do what they like and guide them correctly.
3. Guide children correctly
Children sometimes make mistakes and fail. At this time, as parents, we should not crack down on criticism, but guide our children how to correct their mistakes, how to stand up from failure, encourage and affirm their children, and their self-confidence will naturally become better when they come back. This exercise opportunity is very effective for children's progress.
4. refuse to spoil and grow up freely
It is a lot of family education problems for parents to spoil their children. Spoiling will make children form a concept of "I am the most important". In fact, in order to make children better, parents must not spoil their children, otherwise their character will become willful. Once the child is unreasonable, parents had better deal with the child in a cold way.
5. Respect children and learn to let go
Children have their own choices, and parents should learn to respect their children, as long as their choices are correct and reasonable, or will not cause losses and injuries. So, why not raise children? Let children grow up freely and happily, and be an independent person from an early age, which is more conducive to children's growth.
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