When we judge a person to be good, he will think that everything is fine. When a person does something wrong, it is not good in all aspects. I have never seen it with my own eyes, but I am always unconsciously biased by other people's language. Just as parents say that children are not good at learning and slow to respond, children have doubts about themselves and doubt that they are not good in all aspects.
Praise and praise a child's behavior often, and the child will feel that he is excellent in all aspects, which will lead to his pride. Always negatively evaluate a child, and the child will become more and more conceited. You can use the halo effect to praise children for doing the right thing, educate them to do the wrong thing and encourage them to be confident in the evaluation of something. We all envy other people's children, and at the same time we are disappointed with our own children and have no confidence. Parents always encourage their children. Not only does it not work, but children are even more reluctant to study, becoming more and more agitated and degenerating. Children also need encouragement, write a lot of encouraging words to encourage children, and at the same time, the halo effect works to make children have confidence in themselves and the future.
How do parents use the "halo effect" correctly? Don't deny children casually. Sometimes parents are willful when evaluating their children, and what they say is very harmful to children, but parents don't realize it. When parents give their children positive comments, they will be shrouded in a positive aura and guide them to develop in a good direction. Parents' negation will instill negative emotions into children, have a negative impact on children, and children will have self-doubt. Encouraging words are the motivation to work hard for children. Only in this way can children become better themselves.
Every child has his own advantages and disadvantages. Parents can affirm their children's advantages by praising them. You can tell children that children also have benefits and potential. Give correct guidance to children who are not doing well, and avoid using more sensitive and exciting words in the guidance process. Let children become a halo, illuminate others and let others learn.
Parents should start with teachers, classmates and children themselves, fully understand their children's current thoughts and performances, so as to make more targeted use of the "halo effect". Don't just look at the child's appearance or results, don't pay attention to the child's heart and process. Sometimes children's efforts can't meet their parents' expectations, and parents will think that children are not serious. This will only make children more depressed and helpless. Communicate with children more. You can take them out or exchange games with operators. You can also take off your colored glasses and treat your children correctly. In order to cultivate excellent children, parents should skillfully use the "halo effect" to let their children improve themselves.
The "halo effect" has both advantages and disadvantages. In order to make children themselves bright, it is the key for parents to educate their children by using the "halo effect". First of all, we should set a good example for children and form good habits, and good habits will become natural. In the process of parents' use, don't put too much pressure on children, and proper pressure can make children last. The "halo effect" is always reflected in life, and parents need to make good use of it to make their children outstanding in their own eyes.