1: in this course, I saw my weakness in the integration of knowledge and action, that is, as the teacher of animal husbandry said, "If you can't say it, you can't do it;" If you can't say it clearly, you can't do it well. " Sometimes, clarity is power ~ Only when you have clear goals and firm beliefs and really understand, can you speak out and make it clear, which is the real "understanding". Suddenly more aware of the importance of testimony ~ in fact, I am responsible for myself. Spending time and energy on learning this time is the best test of whether you have gained anything [yeah]. Perhaps for this reason, I found that I didn't know what it was to write a good speech at first, but now I can progress to "gushing and gushing" by writing a speech. No matter what is right or wrong in the study course, write it first and then [laugh]. As pastoral teachers often say: I am not afraid of mistakes, but I can do it at the same time. Correct the mistake!
From the pastoral teacher's words, I realized the reason why I have never been married. Although today's lesson is about parent-child relationship. That's a sentence from the animal husbandry teacher: "I married a woman outside, but ended up marrying a woman with a man inside" ... This sentence collapsed [covering my face], and I really feel that I have turned myself into a strong woman in my career, which is really crooked. O (╥ ╥) O But it seems that my ex-boyfriends are attracted to me because of this "easy to use", and the problem of instant advantages and disadvantages makes. Otherwise, you will know everything, and the other party will have no sense of existence and value ~
Today, in the parent-child relationship, I also learned the law of natural growth. The big tree is a big tree and the grass is a grass. Let go of the control and expectation of children, and strive to do a good job of "I am responsible for love and you are responsible for blooming". Otherwise, we must hope that the seeds are grass and the grass will grow into trees. In the process of expectation and control, children are tired and parents are tired. Therefore, I also think it is particularly important to teach students in accordance with their aptitude according to their innate character ~
This time, I listened to five kinds of nutrition and gained five kinds of nutrition. I need to know what my children lack and what I need to make up for each other. Among them, the biggest feeling is that I feel the representative significance behind each of the five nutrients. For example, the most important thing in life is "I am very important to you", and the most important thing in life can bring children a sense of existence and value. If the child obviously lacks life, but he doesn't know or understand the mistake that the child doesn't need life, then there is no way to give the child five kinds of nutrition that meet the timing, object and method, and even there will be cases where the child obviously lacks affirmation and praise, but lacks life, but blindly affirms and praises the child and still doesn't give priority to life ~
In short, although the family business is the fifth time I have heard about it! But every time I see the content of the pastoral teacher's course enriched every time, I get more feelings from the classroom every time! As long as there is an opportunity in the future! I will listen to the pastoral teacher's class again and again. I feel much more time-saving and labor-saving than reading and studying by myself. Most importantly, through every retraining course, I really feel that I am meeting a better self! Thanksgiving, Five Blessingg! Thanksgiving pastoral teacher! I also thank all the people who practiced together in Five Blessingg! I'm getting better and better because of everyone?