? You can reach an agreement with your mother-in-law, that is, never intervene in educating your children, because mothers also have the right to control their children, otherwise the children will be more annoyed when they grow up. If you don't educate your children from an early age, it is very unpleasant for you to form a character when you are very young. In this case, if you get along with others in society when you grow up, everyone will not cover up their children like parents, and will certainly lasciviously accuse this person of his mistakes. At that time, the child will be sheltered by others and will not be spoiled by others, which shows that it is difficult for the child to survive in society.
? Tell your mother-in-law that she is educating her children so that they can live well in the future. If it is not too late now, it will be too late. This is because many elders protect their children, and then they will make them form a very bad habit, which will also greatly affect their parents' education, because, for example, when parents educate their children, the children will follow their grandmothers or grandfathers. At this time, parents will not beat and scold, so it is very bad to come forward to solve this problem, and it is also good for children, because everyone's starting point is to hope that children can grow up well in the future.
Don't quarrel when encountering problems, but learn to communicate, because communication is the best way to solve problems. Try to communicate, there are various ways to solve the problem and face it together.