1, doting easily leads to psychological problems: intergenerational education may lead children to rely too much on grandparents and form the habit of doting. This over-protection may hinder the cultivation of children's independence and self-solving ability. In the long run, this may lead to children's psychological problems, such as dependence, inferiority, social fear and so on.
2. Inconsistent demands of two generations easily lead to family conflicts: due to the differences in age background and life experience, there may be many conceptual differences between grandparents and children, which may lead to family conflicts. Grandparents may pay more attention to children's safety and health, but ignore their personal interests and talents.
3. The old people's knowledge concept is aging, and their body and mind are declining: with the growth of age, the old people's knowledge concept may gradually age and fail to keep pace with the times. At the same time, taking care of grandchildren will also bring them some physical and mental pressure.
4. Increase the financial burden and mental stress of the elderly: Taking care of grandchildren not only takes time and energy, but also brings certain economic pressure to the elderly. At the same time, seeing children's problems and difficulties may also increase their mental stress.
Benefits of intergenerational education
1. Inheriting values: intergenerational education can help children get a wider family education. Grandparents or elders can teach their own values, family traditions and culture, cultivate children's moral values and life values, and help children form a positive attitude towards growth.
2. Provide emotional support: grandparents or other elders can provide stable emotional support for children's companionship and care, and children can feel more care and warmth, and enhance their self-confidence and security.
3. Rich experience education: Older people usually have more life experience and wisdom. They can share their experiences and stories with their children, provide them with valuable life education and cultivate their ability to observe, think and solve problems.
4. Consider all-round development: intergenerational education can help children acquire different educational concepts and methods, comprehensively consider children's interests and development needs, and promote their all-round development. Old people often have more time and patience and can provide extra learning opportunities, such as music, painting, handicrafts and so on.