First, eliminate all doubts, bridge the "gap" and build trust.

Children who violate the law and commit crimes and have bad moral character are often reprimanded and sarcastic by their families, and their self-esteem is hurt. They are self-abased, guilty, suspicious and alert, and have a gap with their parents, and even form a "gap." They often treat their parents' education with indifference, vigilance or rude help. They must not be disgusted.

Respond to them with more sympathy and care, touch their heartstrings with enthusiasm and sincerity, inspire their consciousness, let them eliminate suspicion and confrontation, and build up confidence in progress.

Second, create opportunities for awakening.

A process of awakening, transforming, consolidating and hiding. The so-called enlightenment is a children's factory that has made mistakes. Under the guidance of factual education and educators, it realized the danger of persisting in mistakes and began to have the desire to stop them. If parents want to give their children a chance to wake up, they should be emotional and rational and strengthen education and guidance.

Inspire children to generate sparks of thought. Once they find this precious flame flashing in their hearts, parents should firmly grasp it, give full affirmation in time, and make it a driving force for change. After seeing that the child has taken actions to correct mistakes, parents should continue to encourage and strengthen the child's correct behavior.

Third, protect self-esteem and cultivate a sense of honor.

Self-esteem is a feeling that a person demands respect from society, the collective and others. It is a positive psychological factor for a person to strive for progress and constantly overcome shortcomings and mistakes. Children who often make mistakes often lack self-esteem and sense of honor, so they are insensitive to criticism and public opinion.

This is a Soviet educator, Suhomlinski, who has been criticized, discriminated against and hurt too much. He said,' When influencing students' inner world, one of the most sensitive corners of their hearts-people's self-esteem and heart should not be bruised. When educating children who have made mistakes, parents should adopt the methods of praise, encouragement and enlightenment to ignite the fire of children's self-esteem and arouse their sense of honor. Only in this way can education have hope and strength.

Fourth, cultivate the concept of right and wrong and improve the ability to distinguish.

Some teenagers have done something wrong just because they lack the concept of right and wrong and the ability to distinguish right from wrong, and they don't know how to admit their mistakes and correct them. Therefore, the weak concept of right and wrong and discrimination ability are important psychological factors that lead children to make mistakes. Cultivating children's concept of right and wrong and improving their recognition ability are important measures to help them correct their evil deeds.