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Children are a mirror of family, and family is a mirror of society.
For children, family is their best harbor and parents are their best guides.
Whether a child can win at the starting line, give full play to his talents and become promising in the future, family environment plays a key role.
As parents, the greatest expectation is to cultivate excellent children.
So, how to cultivate excellent and promising dragons and phoenixes? Maybe many parents will say:
Of course, let children study hard, enter key middle schools, enter experimental classes, and receive the best quality education!
However, have you ever thought that the best education actually comes from parents' family education, and family relations also play a vital role.
Today, I recommend 7 movies about family education to you, hoping to have an effect on children's personality, psychology and behavior by learning the lifestyle, thinking mode, education mode and lifestyle of parents in the movies.
Let's have a look.
1
More than 7/more than 56
Look at the old at three, and look at the old at seven.
Recommended index: ★★★★★★★
Douban score: 9.6
Introduction to the film:
Michael apted began to shoot the first documentary series from 65438 to 0964, and interviewed 14 seven-year-old children from different classes in Britain, some of whom came from orphanages and some from high society.
After that, every seven years, Apter will interview these children again, listen to their dreams and talk about their lives. Forty-nine years old, I know my destiny, see through the passage of time and the vicissitudes of life.
Keywords: family growth
Recommended reason:
People are not sure what wealth they can leave to the next generation, but at least they can be sure that once they receive a good education, they will benefit for life.
What may affect people's choice is not money, but ideas, just as his family will invest more money in education.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. Ask your child what your dream is?
What do you want to be when you grow up?
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mirror
Children are a mirror of family, and family is a mirror of society.
Recommended index: ★★★★★★★
Douban score: 7.2
Introduction to the film:
This is a story about the soul going home. Three families were in trouble because their children dropped out of school. Parents had no choice but to send their children to a special school to "reform", but unexpectedly let themselves receive an enlightenment education that touched their souls.
Parents' full love for their children can sometimes cause full harm. Why? There is often a problem behind "problem children": the existence of family education model.
The film takes intergenerational emotional problems as the breakthrough point, presents sociological samples of three families through objective and calm real records, and re-examines the emotional problems such as parent-child relationship and intimate relationship faced by China families in the current era from a new perspective of lack of emotional education.
Children are a mirror of family, and family is a mirror of society.
Keywords: parenting education
Recommended reason:
Many parents never seem to realize their mistakes in educating their children.
This documentary gives us a chance to reflect on ourselves.
Of course, there are no perfect parents in the world, and everyone's growth depends mainly on themselves. As a child, you should give yourself the motivation to grow up and be responsible for your own growth in order to become the person you want to be.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. What would you do if your child fell in love?
If the child is rebellious, do you still love him?
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three
dynasty
Under cruelty, record the aesthetics of survival.
Recommended index: ★★★★★★★
Douban score: 9.5
Introduction to the film:
On the border of the Sahara Desert in West Africa, David, a chimpanzee who has ruled for three years, faces challenges from other males. In order to keep the kingship, he began to choose an alliance. After the siege, the immortal Wang Yiran embarked on the road of revenge to regain the throne.
On the Antarctic continent, thousands of emperor penguin fathers get together to fight against the extremely cold night. They wait for the birth of a new life and the return of their loved ones.
On the grasslands of Kenya, Lion Zhan tries his best to protect ethnic groups. He must face the test of life and death in the face of great disaster. In Zimbabwe National Park, Tate, an elderly sex maniac, became overwhelmed. Her control over the family is gradually weakening, while her daughter is on the rise, coveting her mother's throne.
In India, Raj Bella, a female tiger, catches prey alone and raises four children, but nature has never been kind to her.
Keywords: stubborn survival of family relations
Recommended reason:
Family relations in the animal world, through the form of unit drama, the producer showed the audience a thrilling drama that is no less than human beings in the five major animal groups.
Take us into some of the most iconic animal lives in the world and uncover the little-known and hidden details of life in animal families.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. What's the difference between the animal world and human family relations?
2. What do you think of the family relationship in the animal world?
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term of endearment
Me and my mom, we love each other and kill each other.
Recommended index: ★★★★★★★
Douban score: 8.0
Introduction to the film:
Daughter Emma is the darling of mother Aurora. Aurora has arranged everything for Emma since she was a child. Emma's manners, appearance, study, play, making friends and so on must be approved by Aurora.
After her husband's early death, Aurora took care of everything at home and was more "authoritarian" to Emma. Although Emma shows a gentle and weak side, she is very stubborn at heart. The mother and daughter also quarreled many times.
When she grew up, Emma began to try to get rid of her mother's "autocracy": despite her mother's opposition, she married a graduate student with unstable work ... It took her thirty years to get rid of her mother's "autocracy", but in the end she found an unforgettable affection for her mother.
Keywords: the growth of mother-daughter relationship
Recommended reason:
As the best Oscar film, Mother and Daughter Love shows the deep affection between a middle-class single mother and her daughter.
This film reshaped the warmth of the family.
The mother portrayed in Mother and Daughter is neurotic and controlling, but she loves her daughter very much.
Being a mother and being a friend may be the most anticipated mother-daughter relationship.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. Would you like to regard your parents as your friends?
2. What did you dislike most when growing up?
Feel the film with three pictures:
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parenthood
How should parents meet the needs of their children at different stages?
Recommended index: ★★★★★
Douban score: 7.5
Introduction to the film:
Jill's youngest son Kevin was persuaded to go home by the school teacher because of his extremely introverted personality, which really worried Jill. In order to help Kevin regain his confidence, Jill plays games with Kevin every day, but it seems to have no effect.
Jill's brother-in-law, Nathan, has the opposite educational idea to Jill. He hoped to train his daughter into a useful talent, but under the oppression of his cramming education, not only did his daughter lose a happy life, but even his wife finally left him.
Buckman is a single mother, raising a pair of children by herself. Life is not easy. She also went through the rebellious period of two children. Her daughter got married early, and her son became more and more reticent.
Keywords: mentor growth
Recommended reason:
There are three family relationships in the film, and there are also parents' families. Every family treats their children differently. What are the shortcomings of the three schools?
Many children's behaviors are influenced by their parents' parenting behaviors, and some are completely opposite to their parents because they are dissatisfied with their families and hope to change this situation in the future.
Through this film, think about how your education for your children is influenced by your parents.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. How to help children build self-confidence?
2. Discuss your favorite lifestyle with your children.
Feel the film with three pictures:
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supremacy of the father
Friendship keeps the last warmth of life.
Recommended index: ★★★★★
Douban score: 8. 1
Introduction to the film:
Chen Yichang's company went bankrupt because of business failure. Seeing that creditors have come to collect debts, the wife can't bear to file for divorce. Apart from his 7-year-old son Qiangqiang, Chen Yichang has almost nothing. The lost Chen Yichang drinks all day to drown his sorrows. Young and strong, he seems to feel the changes in his family from his father. Once pampered, he has to face the cruelty and hardships of life.
But Qiang Qiang is a sensible child. Although he is expected to get toys and a colorful life like other children of his age, he knows his father's present situation and never asks him for anything.
Although life is hard, Chen Yichang is satisfied as long as he can be with his son. He will try his best to make his son live a happy life, no matter how difficult it is.
Keywords: single-parent life growth
Recommended reason:
This family education film is simple in plot, profound in connotation and touching.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. Develop children's daily life skills?
2. How to give more love to children in single-parent families?
Two pictures of feeling the movie:
seven
land
Externally, it warns the world; Internally, it heals life.
Recommended index: ★★★★★
Douban score: 8.7
Introduction to the film:
Director Liu Bing aimed the camera at his friend who skateboarded with him since childhood.
The oldest son Zach became a father for the first time. The arrival of a newborn seems to make Zach grow up overnight, but the ensuing pressure of survival and family conflicts also make him close to collapse.
Keira was just an adult, and she was full of confusion when she first entered the society. The filming of this documentary gave him a chance to re-examine his past, family and everything around him.
Liu Bing also handed over his camera and told his story. What made him choose skateboarding? What prompted him to make this documentary?
Keywords: hobbies, educational challenges
Recommended reason:
Skateboarding in the growth of these three teenagers, accompanied by their loneliness, accepted their catharsis.
Family is their hard-to-get-rid chains, and skateboarding has become their wings to fly freely.
Its significance has gone far beyond the intuitive feeling brought by a documentary. Externally, it warns the world; Internally, it heals life.
You can talk about this with your children:
1. Let the children talk about their hobbies and dreams?
2. Let the children talk about how to treat the relationship with their parents.
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Spencer, a famous writer and educator, said: "We may not accumulate too much property or have any reputation in our life.
But every parent has accumulated some good experience and conduct through life. Give these to children, and they will use new life to enlarge and shine. "
Yes, the world is unfair, and the conditions for children will be different.
It is not enough to train excellent children by working hard on them.
Parents should change their ideas, be role models for their children, be willing to grow up with their children and provide them with a good family environment, which is a panacea for cultivating excellent children.