Excessive frugality of parents will not only affect their quality of life, but also affect their children's understanding of life. To put it bluntly, the essence of excessive thrift is to only talk about pragmatism and not spend useless things. But life is the pursuit of happiness and happiness, not just for survival.
Low desire, inferiority, lack of motivation in life, easy to be tempted, timid, thinking more and doing less, anxious, introverted, sensitive and unfocused. Parents' excessive frugality will lead to children's "guilt" in spending money and unhappy life. Money is a tool, making money is to use it, not to be led by it.
Unfortunately, some children are poor since childhood, and their parents are too frugal, so they always order their children to save some flowers. In this way, children feel guilty about spending a little money, feel sorry for their parents, and feel that they spend too much money and should not. Under this illusion, it is difficult for children to be happy. Children only rely on frugality to give themselves a sense of security, which is putting the cart before the horse and it is difficult to have a happy experience.
There are two major influences: First, in the process of doing business or working, the social pattern is small. The small pattern is to focus only on immediate interests, not on the overall situation and the future. Often give up the whole forest for petty gain. Second, happiness is reduced. Because money and material happiness will make you feel guilty! You can't be happy to pursue the material improvement of living standards.
Thrift, not deliberate, should be the product of the times. In the era of material scarcity, we should also make corresponding material contributions to a better life. Material should be a tool to bring happiness, not be enslaved by him. People, in essence, should live to pursue a better life!