The cause of the rebellion
1, family factors:
Some parents don't always communicate with their children. They think that since children are born by themselves, they should listen to themselves unconditionally, make them yield in a rude and commanding tone, and don't give them any independent space. In this way, children will have great resentment and resistance to their parents' educational methods, thus producing rebellious psychology.
2. Educational factors:
Improper forms, methods and places of parents' or teachers' education will hurt children's self-esteem, lead to great resentment and distrust of adolescent children, and thus produce rebellious psychology.
3. Social factors:
Improper media guidance will also lead to teenagers' rebellious psychology. For example, some videos or film and television works try their best to beautify the personal behavior of rebels, which will make children appreciate this rebellious image very much and lead to rebellious behavior.
Educational methods of teenagers' rebellion
1, create a good family environment
A harmonious family atmosphere will make children feel the care of their parents from an early age, and will let them know that their parents also want the care of others, thus helping children to develop from learning to care for their parents to caring for others. Family members must respect each other. First of all, it is very important for children to feel that their parents are equal.
2. Don't overprotect children.
Overprotected children don't know the hard work, don't cherish the fruits of their parents' labor, only pay attention to their own desires, and don't care about their parents' economic ability. It is necessary for parents to let their children know about their work and income outside the home, and let them take part in some labor or part-time jobs that they can, so that children can realize the hard work and hard-won wealth, and children will gradually cherish their lives and appreciate and respect their parents from the bottom of their hearts.
3. Face up to children's needs and let go appropriately.
Parents need to face up to their children's growth needs, understand their children, meet their reasonable needs as much as possible, and don't refuse them directly if they are unreasonable. They should explain the reasons and don't accumulate contradictions with rebellious children.
4. Let children learn to speak with respect.
Many children vent their emotions by crying and making a scene, while some parents leave such children alone or do nothing. In fact, most children will feel guilty or even afraid after conflicts with their parents. Therefore, when children show disrespect to their parents, parents should stop it in time and clearly say to their children, "You hurt me by doing this, and I am very angry." Let children know what influence their actions have on others.