First, teach children to learn self-management.
1. Know yourself
2. Pay attention to three moments:
Time to make mistakes-understanding, advice
Frustration moment-pay attention to frustration reaction, empathize with children's feelings and find a sense of belonging.
Guide the next step and get out of frustration.
When you are in a bad mood-keep abreast of your child's situation at home and school.
Second, help children make good use of their dreams.
To realize the meaning of dreams, with your own dreams, every step of dreams is valuable.
Firm, practical and valuable
Third, help children learn to plan.
How to cultivate independent initiative
1. Establish professional awareness
Confucius' summary of his life
Start planning weekends, plan a week, a month, a year, a lifetime.
2. Realize the five modernizations-
3. Timely feedback and summary
Suggestion: summarize and become a living habit, and carry out weekly and monthly family meetings.
Fourth, help children manage their emotions.
1. Let children feel cared for.
Have a chance to vent.
3. The safety of speech
Suggestion: Do some basic exercises, keep an emotional diary, climb high to look at the stars, recite poems and listen to favorite songs.
Fifth, help children face the future.
Rebellion-awakening period