Education should be a door, open it, full of sunshine and flowers, which can bring happiness and self-confidence to children.

Let children open the door to a whole new world. His vision of the world is new, his cognition of himself is new, and he is also new to what kind of person I want to be. These are all developing step by step. It is definitely not possible to rely entirely on children's personal creation.

Come to think of it, the word "education" contains two concepts: teaching and education. Teaching and educating people is a guiding process, not just empathy and understanding.

Many times, parents will have an idea that he is still a child and need not be so demanding. In the long run, children form the habit of doing what they want and not doing it if they don't want to. As this idea grows up, it becomes a fixed mode of thinking, which is difficult to change.

What we have to do is not to follow the children's thinking blindly, but to play the role of a guide properly and strictly correct the wrong behavior. Even if it hurts him, even if it hurts him when you see him, you should form this habit from an early age. When the habit is formed and the natural consciousness is formed, he will work hard in the direction of self-expectation. Instead of letting nature take its course and drifting with the flow.

Every child has his own characteristics, not advantages and disadvantages. Either learning well is an advantage and learning badly is a disadvantage. You must never instill such an idea in your child's mind.

Guide children to work harder in areas of interest and slowly explore his characteristics. When a child flinches from difficulties, don't teach him how to do it with adult psychology, but let go of his hands from the child's point of view and let the child move forward boldly.

Only in this way, the door opened by the child will be full of sunshine and flowers, and he will be more interested in participating in this world and finding what he really wants to do.