Recently, a new classmate came to our class. His name is Yunuo. She looks white and clean, which is very pleasing. She has never played sports in the two months since she entered the park. Every time she heard the music of practice, she would cry silently and stand stiffly by the chair and refused to come out. In order to encourage him, I always whispered in his ear, "Yunuo, go to the queue, it doesn't matter if you don't do exercises." Only in this way will he go out.

When she came to the playground, Yunuo quietly watched other children do exercises. At this time, the grandmother who has been worried about Yunuo will always stand outside the fence and watch her baby granddaughter do exercises. When she saw Yunuo standing there alone, there was a worried expression on her face. Whenever Yunuo looked back at Grandma, Yunuo began to cry again. I tried my best to make Yuno willing to do exercises.

Method 1: Before doing exercises, I put a big apple sticker on Yunuo. "Red apples like Yunuo best. As long as Yunuo does the problem, the teacher will reward you with two big apples, okay? " Yu Nuo nodded, but when it comes to doing exercises, she didn't move.

Method 2: In order to make Yunuo move, when playing music, I will stand beside Yunuo and dance with her hand. However, Yunuo didn't cooperate at all, so she put her little hand in her pocket and refused to move.

Method 3: I learned that Yunuo likes taking pictures, so I made another move. "Yunuo, the teacher will take pictures of your exercises and then send them to the computer and send them to your parents, okay?" Seeing the camera, Yuno was a little moved and nodded his head. But when I pointed the camera at her, she stopped moving again.

When leaving the garden one day, the impatient grandmother said angrily, "If Yunuo doesn't do exercises tomorrow, grandma won't come to pick you up." Perhaps because of grandma's pressure, Yunuo stood on the playground every day, staring nervously at grandma outside the fence, but still didn't want to do exercises.

Seeing that all the above methods didn't work, I discussed with her grandmother to temporarily dilute her practice and let nature take its course. In this way, over time, Yunuo doesn't seem to like doing exercises.

What makes Yuno unwilling to do exercises? I carefully recalled Yunuo's performance in coming to the park for two months. Yunuo always washes her hands alone and goes to bed last. Even if she goes to the toilet, she won't go until the child leaves, and she won't accept help from others. According to her grandmother, Yunuo is too proud to try something she has never done easily.

When I think of those days when I was doing exercises at school, Yunuo just got sick and didn't come. By the time she came, most of the children would have done their homework except Yunuo. Maybe this is why Yunuo doesn't like doing exercises. After finding out the reason, I used the break time to do it for her one action at a time. Yunuo studied hard and soon learned the basic movements. In order to make Yuno master the movements skillfully, I also asked Yuno to take the tapes he learned home for practice. From then on, Yunuo finally learned to do exercises and was willing to do it.

For a long time, I always thought that Yunuo didn't like doing exercises because he didn't adapt to the environment and because he was stubborn. I didn't carefully analyze Yunuo's personality characteristics. It is impossible for us to change children's behavior quickly only by encouraging and helping them. Only by careful observation, patient listening and careful thinking can we find the crux of the problem.