No, a mother in Huangshi, Hubei Province, angered her baby because she didn't do her homework at the age of 10. Her mother's roar and the child's crying made the neighbors wonder if the child was abused.
Until the police arrived, my mother's tone was still full of despair: "Otherwise, if you teach, you will be crazy if you teach two or three questions."
Tutoring children with homework, who knows, really can't afford to hurt.
Parents who have been hurt by homework abound, and everyone has spit out their babies at home. Look carefully is a sad history:
"Every time I tutor homework, I want to jump off a building. This thing is made to be fondle admiringly. "
"I am really angry. I took two photos with my book, just for my homework in the morning. My parents protected me and had a big fight with me. "
"Neighbors can also call the police about the situation in our house today."
Sure enough, the babies in the same world, the same group of collapsed mothers, who let the children's homework go?
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When it comes to children's homework, parents are full of bitterness. In order to urge children to finish their homework, parents can say that they have tried their best.
At the beginning of the year, a video of Bao Ma herding sheep with her baby on the hillside triggered a heated discussion among netizens.
It turns out that children don't want to do their homework on holiday, and they always say that learning is not as fun as helping grandpa herd sheep. The child didn't mean to talk, but the mother listened attentively.
Turning around and taking the children back to the village to "herd sheep", the children saw a flock of sheep collapse directly, crying that there were so many sheep, and they wanted to release a sheep.
Mom wanted to take her children to "experience" a funny life in her mouth and make her realize that there is no easy job. Unexpectedly, the child just collapsed and quit. When I get home, I can study hard.
Mom, this move is cruel. You can give the child directly to the "sheep" with one move, and you don't have to do homework in the future.
And some mothers have no good solution when they collapse, so they can only ask the police uncle for help.
Previously, in Xuzhou, Jiangsu, a mother reported to the police: "The child 12 years old, I hit him because he didn't want to do his homework. I'm his real mother. Since he hit me, I don't want him now. "
When the children don't do their homework, the mother has nothing to do, just to make the children obey and do their homework. Perhaps the mother never thought that the child would do this to herself, and how sad it would be at that moment.
In the face of the mother's beating and scolding education, children may have rebellious psychology. For children, beating and cursing is also a kind of harm. What kind of despair should children have when they hear their mother say "I don't want him"?
Fortunately, under the painstaking education of the police, the boy realized that his attitude towards his mother was wrong, and the mother also realized that her education method was wrong, and finally solved the knot in her heart.
Parents' homework should not be rushed, and the education of beating and cursing can only get the opposite result.
From this perspective, tutoring is a lose-lose thing. What makes parents wonder is that homework is the child's own business. Why is it so hard to write?
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Teacher Yin Jianli once said, "Children are not born to hate homework. Some of them later became less and less fond of doing homework, because in the process of going to school, especially in primary school, their appetite for homework was destroyed by something. "
For parents, children's homework is a top priority, and it is urgent. Only after finishing homework can parents feel at ease. Therefore, children often face "chain reminders" from their parents after school:
"Still playing, homework finished? Write quickly. "
"The teacher's homework is not much. Finish your homework before eating. "
"What's the time, just write this? Do you want to sleep at night? "
In the face of homework, parents urged again and again, and the children seemed to be deliberately against us. The more you push, the slower you push. When their only patience runs out, they start yelling at their children, which often leads to a situation of "chickens flying and dogs jumping".
Parents' dissatisfaction was exhausted, and children's dislike of homework increased by one point. In the long run, homework has become a "tight spell" for children. Every time parents recite, children will be rejected from their hearts. As time goes on, I hate homework more and more.
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In the face of children's homework, parents collapse, children suffer, and parent-child relationship becomes more and more tense. How to solve this "world" problem?
First of all, parents should change their attitudes.
Many parents urge their children to finish their homework first when they walk into the house after school.
In fact, it is very difficult for children to study all day. The first thing they do when they go home is to let their children relax, such as eating snacks and playing with friends. Don't rush their children to do their homework. You can change your homework after dinner.
After children relax physically and mentally, they will be more involved in their homework.
Secondly, don't stare at the children's homework.
Parents staring at their children's homework are nothing more than distrust their children and fear that they will be distracted. Sitting next to them can remind them from time to time In fact, parents sit next to their children, and children can't concentrate on their homework.
Imagine, the boss is staring at us from behind, can we still work with peace of mind?
It is better to give children an independent space and let them finish their homework by themselves.
Finally, let children develop the habit of checking homework.
Many children finished their homework and made a cursory inspection. On the surface, I was checking, but I didn't use my head in essence. As a result, they can't find wrong questions and missed questions.
Parents should not do homework for their children, so that children can understand that homework is not a burden, but can improve learning efficiency. This is a very important link in homework and exams.
When parents stop doing it for them, the consequences of children's not checking carefully are teachers' criticism and some mistakes in their homework, and children's self-esteem will also urge them to take their homework seriously.
For children's homework, it is the right way not to fight or scold. As Sharla Cheung, an education expert, once said, in the process of parents accompanying their children to do homework, parents' emotions are the most deadly and the key point that affects the parent-child relationship.
Only by changing their own methods can parents make their children's homework more and more smooth.