Lead: Cultivate children's interest in reading. When children are still young, mothers should read aloud to their children every day and choose some lively and interesting stories that can attract children. The following is the story of parenting philosophy that I sorted out and shared with you. Welcome to read the reference.

Parenting philosophy story 1, silent education: the educational skills of the old Zen master

Legend has it that one night, an old Zen master was walking in the temple and saw a chair by the courtyard wall. He immediately understood that a monk who climbed over the wall violated the rules of the temple.

The old Zen master didn't say a word, quietly walked to the wall, moved the chair and squatted down on the spot.

In less than half an hour, I really heard something outside the wall. After a while, a young monk climbed over the wall and jumped into the yard on the back of the old Zen master in the dark. When his foot touched the ground, he realized that it was not the chair he had just stepped on, but his master. The young monk suddenly panicked and was tongue-tied, so he had to stand where he was and wait for Master's punishment.

To the little monk's surprise, the master didn't scold him sharply, but said in a very calm tone:

It's cold at night. Go and put on more clothes.

2. Strength of personality: Mr. Zhang Boling set an example to quit smoking.

Zhang Boling, a famous educator in China, founded Nankai University, Nankai Girls' Middle School and Nankai Primary School after 19 19. He attaches great importance to the education of students' manners and manners and sets an example.

Once, he found that a student's fingers were yellow by smoke, so he seriously advised the student: "Smoking is harmful to health, give it up." Unexpectedly, the student was a little unconvinced and quipped, "Is it harmful for you to smoke?" Zhang Boling smiled apologetically at the students' censure and immediately called on the workers to take away all Luzon cigarettes and destroy them in public. He also broke his beloved pipe that had been used for many years and sincerely said, "From then on, I quit smoking with all my classmates." Sure enough, he never smoked again after that.

3. A word to change the fate of students: Pierre Paul's "wonderful hand to rejuvenate"

"You can tell by your slender little finger that you will be the governor of new york in the future", an ordinary saying, changed a student's life.

These are the words of Pierre Paul, principal of Daxiong Primary School in Dashatou, new york, USA. The word "you" between the lines refers to roger rawls, a naughty student at that time. Rawls Jr. was born in the infamous Dashatou slum in new york, USA. The environment here is dirty and violent, and it is a gathering place for stowaways and vagrants. So he was badly influenced since he was a child. He often played truant, fought and stole things in primary school. One day, when he jumped down from the windowsill and reached out to the podium, he was caught red-handed by the headmaster Pierre Paul. Unexpectedly, instead of criticizing him, the headmaster spoke the above sentence sincerely and gave serious guidance and encouragement.

At that time, Rawls was taken aback, because in his short life experience, only his grandmother encouraged him once, saying that he could be the captain of a five-ton ship. He wrote down the headmaster's words and firmly believed that it was true. From that day on, "Governor new york" flew high in his heart like a flag. Rawls' clothes are no longer covered with mud, Rawls' language is no longer dirty and ugly, and Rawls' actions are no longer procrastinating and aimless. In the next 40 years, there was not a day when he didn't ask himself to be governor. 5 1 year-old, finally became the governor of New York.

4. The power of tolerance: Mr. Tao Xingzhi's four sweets.

When Mr. Tao Xingzhi was the principal, one day he saw a boy hitting his classmate with a brick, so he stopped him and told him to go to the principal's office. When President Tao returned to the office, the boy was already waiting there.

Tao Xingzhi took out a candy for this classmate: "This is a reward for you, because you got to the office before me." Then he took out another candy and said, "This is for you, too. I won't let you hit your classmates. You stopped it right away, which shows that you respect me. "

The boy took the second candy in doubt, and Mr. Tao added, "As far as I know, you beat your classmate because he bullied girls, which shows that you have a sense of justice. I will reward you with another candy. "

At this time, the boy was moved to tears and said, "Principal, I was wrong. If my classmates are wrong again, I can't take this approach. " Mr. Tao then took out another candy: "You have admitted your mistake, and I will reward you with another piece." My candy came out and our conversation was over. "

5. Praise is a candle in a dark room.

According to the weather forecast of the Meteorological Observatory, a recent typhoon will hit a seaside town.

People in the small town panicked and took an active part in the prevention work.

A mother is busy, standing beside her little daughter.

"This damn typhoon ..." Mother cursed while packing.

"I like typhoons." The little girl next to me disagrees with her mother.

Mom was surprised, because the typhoon was extremely destructive, destroying crops, blowing down houses and blocking traffic, which brought great inconvenience and loss to people's lives, but this little guy actually said that he liked typhoons.

"Son, tell mom why you like typhoons?" Mother asked cautiously.

"The last time the typhoon came, the power went out," the little girl answered without thinking.

"What if there is a power outage?"

"Candles will be lit at night."

"Do you like lighting candles?"

"Yes, that time (referring to the night of the last typhoon), I walked around with candles on, and you said I looked like an angel."

Mother was speechless, immediately put down her work, picked up the little girl, kissed her little face, leaned close to her little ear and said, "Son, you will always be an angel!" " "

6. Flowering Buddha Table: Give the prodigal son a chance to turn back.

Once upon a time, there was a young monk who was very popular with the abbot. The abbot taught all that he had learned in his life, hoping that he could become an excellent Buddhist disciple. Unexpectedly, he moved his mind and sneaked down the mountain overnight, and the colorful city fascinated his eyes. After that, he became crazy.

One night after 20 years, the moonlight outside the window was like washing, and it was crystal clear in his palm. He suddenly repented, put on his clothes and rushed to the temple to beg Master's forgiveness. The abbot hated his debauchery and refused to accept him as an apprentice again. He said, "Indeed, you are guilty, and you will be in the fire. If you want to forgive the Buddha, you must first spend time on the table. " The prodigal son left disappointed.

The next day, when the abbot stepped into the Buddhist temple, he saw that the Buddha table was full of clusters of flowers. The abbot instantly realized that he went down the mountain to find his disciples, but it was too late. The disheartened prodigal son fell into an absurd life again, and the flowers on the Buddha's desk only lasted for a short day. That night, the abbot died, and his last words were: "There is nothing wrong in this world that cannot be returned, and there is nothing wrong that cannot be changed."

The sincere idea of doing good is the rarest miracle, just like a flower on the Buddha's desk. What makes the miracle die is not a mistake, but a cold heart that refuses to forgive and believe.

7. Correct yourself first.

In California, a lady keeps a precious parrot. This parrot is beautiful, but it has a bad habit: it often coughs and its voice is hoarse, as if its throat is full of disgusting phlegm.

The hostess was very anxious and hurried to take him to the vet, fearing that he might have some strange respiratory disease.

The examination results show that the parrot is completely healthy and there is nothing wrong with it. The hostess quickly asked why the parrot made such a terrible cough, and the doctor replied:

"As the saying goes, parrots parrot. The reason why it coughs must be because it often hears such sounds. Someone in your family must cough often, right? "

At this time, the hostess was a little embarrassed. It turns out that she has a habit of smoking herself, so she often coughs. Parrots just imitate the cough of their hostess perfectly.

8. Bad words hurt people in June.

A bear was seriously injured in a fight with his companion. He came to a woodcutter's cabin and asked for help.

The ranger felt sorry for it and decided to take it in. In the evening, the ranger patiently and meticulously wiped the blood, bandaged the wound and prepared a sumptuous dinner for the bear, all of which made the bear extremely moved.

Before going to bed, because there was only one bed, the ranger invited the bear to sleep with him. Just as the bear got into bed, its unpleasant smell got into the ranger's nose.

"Oh, my God! I've never smelled such a bad smell. You are simply the biggest bug in the world! "

Bears have no language and certainly can't sleep. They managed to stay up until dawn, thanked the ranger and continued on their way.

We met by chance many years later, and the ranger asked the bear:

"That you were seriously injured. Is the wound healed now? "

The bear replied, "I have forgotten the physical pain, but the wound in my heart will never heal!" " "

9. Give each weed time to bloom.

A hermit lives in the mountains. He is very diligent. Every spring, as soon as he pokes his head out, he cleans the weeds on the steps.

One day, the hermit decided to go out of town and asked a friend to help him guard the courtyard. On the contrary, this friend is lazy and never prunes the weeds on the steps and lets them grow freely.

At the end of summer, a wild grass blooms, and five small flowers are fragrant, just like those orchids in woodland, but with lacy sallow. A friend suspected that it was also a kind of orchid, so he picked some leaves and flowers and asked a plant expert. Experts carefully observed for a while, excitedly said:

"This is a rare orchid. Many people have spent their whole lives trying to find it. If they are in the city flower market, the price of this orchid is at least 10,000 yuan. "

"LAN LAN? ! "The friend was shocked. When the hermit learned the result, another person was shocked. He regrets ground say:

"In fact, that Lalan tree will break ground every spring, but I just pulled it out when it just sprouted. If I wait patiently for it to blossom, I will find its value a few years ago. "

10 A rose that never fades

In a school in the former Soviet Union, beautiful roses were in full bloom in the greenhouse on campus. Many students come to see it every day, but no one picks it.

One morning, a four-year-old child (studying in the kindergarten of this school) walked into the greenhouse and picked the biggest and most beautiful rose. When she walked out of the greenhouse with flowers, the headmaster of the school came face to face. The headmaster wanted to know why the little girl picked flowers, so he bent down and asked kindly:

"Son, can you tell me who the flowers you picked are for?"

"For grandma. Grandma is very ill. I told her that there was a big rose in the school. Grandma doesn't believe it. I took it off and gave it to her. I hope she will get better soon. Grandma will send it back after reading it. "

After listening to the child's answer, the headmaster's heart vibrated. He took the little girl by the hand, picked two big roses from the greenhouse and said:

"This one is for you, you are a sensible child; This one is for your grandmother, thanking her for raising such a good child. "

Who is this headmaster? He is a great educator and a model of education admired all over the world, Suhomlinski.