Most traditional families in China educate their children in a critical way, and parents generally urge their children through criticism. Although this method can achieve the goal to a certain extent, it is not conducive to children's physical and mental health and personality development. Therefore, I am more in favor of encouraging education for the following reasons:
Critical education can easily make children lose self-confidence and even have rebellious psychology. In my impression, my mother is a person who likes critical education. She always thinks that I am not good at this and that, and she never wants to teach me how to do the right thing, such as not choosing vegetables and washing clothes.
At first I heard her criticism, and I tried to do it well, but later I found that I still couldn't get her approval. Finally, I just broke the jar and broke it, so I stopped doing housework in front of her. Even in my twenties, I don't like doing housework, or even reject it, because I always feel that I will be pointed at by others.
Encouraging education can cultivate children's fun and is more conducive to their growth. Everyone needs praise and encouragement. Every child who grows up in an encouraging family is often optimistic and confident.
People need to be recognized and affirmed after implementing a certain behavior, and he is willing to continue to strengthen and optimize himself. This applies to adults and children.
Therefore, I think the educational concept of modern families should focus on encouraging education, minimize criticism and education for children, and provide them with a bright and beautiful growth environment.