Help children raise awareness before falling in love, form a correct attitude and understand that falling in love is a serious matter and a responsibility to themselves and others. Let children know that people have goals and tasks at every stage of their lives. Before adulthood, that is, before college, learning is the main task. Without an adult who doesn't understand feelings and is at a loss in front of them, there is no condition and ability to talk about love. It is better to go all out to study, and when he grows up and becomes excellent, he will find a loved one to fall in love generously. Let children know that adolescent boys and girls like not love, but love, which can effectively prevent children from puppy love.
When children grow up, they have the conditions and ability to talk about love. Parents should encourage their children to fall in love, help them to establish a scientific concept of love, and make more use of the platform of life, so that children can know themselves objectively and understand their outlook on life, values and world view from the perspective of real life, so as to know that both parties in love must have the same view in order to fall in love and fly together, that is, to exchange convection at the same level. So as to reduce the blindness and impulsiveness of love, make psychological preparations before falling in love, learn to look at each other deeply, not just their superficial conditions, and effectively put an end to unrequited love or lack of foundation.
Children in love also need the help of adults. Parents can't get involved too much, and they can't let it go. Use your own personal experience to guide children to fall in love calmly, love and respect each other, and at the same time calmly think about whether the two sides are the most suitable people. At this stage, children should be guided to think more about the reality of life. Mature love is a prelude to marriage, and whether it is appropriate or not, as a child, is the most clear.
Love is the gateway to marriage, and marriage is the most important thing in life. Therefore, love is also a major event in children's growth, but children lack life experience and know little about the opposite sex, feelings and life. As experienced parents, no matter whether they succeed or fail, they can learn from it. Proper guidance is conducive to children's love.