So you have lived with problems for more than ten years, but you just don't know it yet. And this problem arises, just like, you think you are healthy and go to the hospital for a physical examination before you find yourself with a potential disease. There is no need to worry and be nervous. Because you are still alive, it has not caused your death, so as long as you are alive, you have a chance to overcome this invisible "chronic disease".
The above is to stabilize the military. You know, the collapse of morale is not far away. So in any case, we must do everything possible to stabilize the morale of the army. Then there will be no worry and tension in your heart, and then your wisdom will come out from the generation. Our national quintessence, Tai Ji Chuan emphasizes tranquility. Why? It is precisely because of this state that human perception is the most open and free. In fact, wisdom is born in peace. Quote a passage from our Confucian classic "Da Xue"
Zhi Zhi then has a decision, then he can be quiet, then he can be quiet, then he can be safe, then he can think about it, and then he can get it.
Things start and end, and things end. If you know what you have, you will find a shortcut.
"In my nearly 30 years of life, this passage seems to be full of wisdom, and it is my guide to learn from others, be sincere and honest, cultivate one's morality, and be harmonious.
Then let's take a look at the root of this small problem, which is called radical thinking (thinking is always more important than being busy, and it is also the so-called "university" that things have their roots and ends, and gentlemen talk but don't do it). Let you rest assured that according to scientific investigation, the intelligence distribution of people in society is normal, that is, the extreme wise men and fools on both sides are very few, and most of them are intelligent ordinary people. These people need education to have an upward trend. So you think you are lucky to be one of those fools?
Then go to the doctor for the root cause, which can only be analyzed by yourself. Are you tired of learning math because you can't learn it well? Have you ever tried hard, but you didn't get positive feedback, that is, your grades didn't improve, so you had a fidgety and evasive mentality? If my description is correct, the problem will be much simpler. I can see that you want to learn math well. So you attribute this invalid problem to the following reasons, which is also the solution to your problem:
1. In terms of learning methods, I recommend you to learn videos such as Wei Shusheng Thought Report. I believe that if you really have a chance, you can use my recommendation to make Wei Shusheng your life mentor. At least I regard Wei Shusheng as my spiritual mentor. In particular, you need to read his Talking about the Work of the Head Teacher. The way to learn from Wei Shusheng is a deep immersion learning. You can spend a few weeks studying Wei Shusheng's monograph videos. Turn yourself into a teacher, become a graduate student, explore people's hearts and explore your own learning methods. Here are the following points: first, we must preview before class, we must preview before class, we must. Second, ask questions. For those who don't know how to preview, you can ask questions or attend classes, or ask questions after class. Third, you must read your whole book and sort out the basic knowledge points of mathematics by yourself, so that students in Wei Shusheng can finish learning books and problems after class in the next school year of summer vacation. Fourth, we must remember and implement the first three.
2, be a service class, become an adult, and let yourself live a valuable life, instead of just spinning around in a few books. We must base ourselves on people and their moral qualities. Can you understand me when you get to work, or do you want to know what qualities you need in your work when you go to work in the summer vacation? I'm telling you, the first rule is honesty. Facts are facts. Don't deceive yourself. We often paralyze ourselves in front of problems, abandon ourselves, escape, refuse to accept problems, and even hide them. This is extremely dangerous in our work, so that you don't have to stand still and you won't experience the pleasure of being a man. Second, I am brave. In particular, it is important to take part in physical exercise to find your favorite sport, preferably a real martial artist to pass boxing, so as to improve your integrity. In this way, you can take risks. You can watch some autobiographies such as Poor Charlie Collection, Biography of Franklin and Jack Welch, and listen to the video of Luo Ji Thinking. You will see that what you have learned in books is nothing more than the usefulness of high-tech research. Learning method, thinking method and personality are the core. In fact, enjoying optimism is the core.
3. The videos and books recommended for you are: Peace Warrior (books and videos), Dialogue with God (books and videos), Meeting Unknown Oneself (books), Goodwill Hunting (videos), Wang Yangming, 1 2 (books).
Recommend a training institution that will make your life happy. There are many adult participants in these institutions, and the general fee is around 2000. Why do uncles and aunts spend money on these? Is it stupid? You can think. Love and happiness theory, happiness expert Zen (Huang Tingchan), Qing education. You can search online.
That's all, I hope my suggestions and recommended things are useful to you, and I hope you can tell your classmates so that they can benefit together. You'd better recommend them to your Chinese teacher and organize a reading discussion group. I have attended at least two reading sessions, and the gains from each discussion have exceeded my own meditation and my thinking has become more active.