Lan Lan's parents are senior intellectuals with high academic qualifications and are regarded as academic masters. They often publish their papers in some magazines. Light light blue is naturally very proud of having such excellent parents, but once, she overheard her father call someone and said on the phone that he was writing a paper for him. Light light blue was surprised to ask his mother why her father asked others to write a paper for him. But the names written on the paper are all dad's. Light light blue's mother didn't say much, only told light light blue, "because that man received money from his father, he had to write a paper for his father." As for why I wrote my father's name, it was because my father gave money and deserved it. "
After that, light light blue learned from his father. When he doesn't want to do the homework assigned by the teacher, he calls his classmates who have studied well and asks him to tell him the answer to the question. He pays his own money for that classmate. Sometimes he asks others to give him extra-curricular classes, and he goes to find others to play by himself.
In this way, Lan Lan's homework is praised by the teacher every day, praising her hard work. However, this situation was all exposed after the final grade. Light light blue's exam results are particularly poor, and even the teacher wonders why he usually does his homework so well.
After taking the exam once, the teacher thought it was a rollover, but the exam after light light blue was always bad, which was very different from her usual level of homework. Later, the classmate who did her homework for light light blue accidentally let it slip, saying that light light blue always asked others to do her homework, saying that she actually didn't know anything. Later, the students in the class will look at the light blue with colored glasses.
Light light blue has formed the bad habit of letting others do his homework for him, which is inseparable from his parents' usual education, because light light blue's father is like this, letting others write papers for himself. Naturally, under the influence of parents, Light Light Blue will imitate and learn from their parents' bad habits, which reflects the importance of family education and shows how much influence it has on children.
Cai Yuanpei once said in The Cultivation of China People that "the family is the first school in life". Life's character, the so-called ever-changing people, mostly in the embryo and family ",the importance of family education to children is self-evident.
How can parents better guide and discipline their children? What the hell should I do? Childhood education is particularly important.
Before the child is three years old, his thoughts and behaviors are growing rapidly. During this time, we should train them to know the world. However, at this age, they can't tell whether things are good or bad, and they don't know what is right or wrong. At this time, parents should get involved and educate them what to do and what not to do. What children learn during this time will be remembered for a long time.
Parents should set a good example.
At an early age, children's independent thinking ability is poor, they will rely more on their parents and consciously imitate their parents' practices, which has a great influence on children. If it is a good habit, that's fine, but if parents do a negative and bad thing, children will follow suit. It is very important for parents to set a good example.
Parents should participate in their children's education.
Children's education is the joint participation of both parents, not just one's education. Nowadays, people are under great social pressure and busy with work, and they will find excuses to ignore family education for their children. Children's childhood is fleeting, and a lot of education for children is lost unconsciously. And in education, the roles of father and mother are different, no matter which education is lost, it is not good.
In addition, if you want to have a good family education, the most important thing is to establish a good parent-child relationship with your children. Good parent-child relationship can make it easier for parents to educate their children and solve many problems easily. Parents should also pay attention to their children's thoughts, respect their opinions, give them a good education and let them grow into a very good person.