First, accept failure and treat setbacks correctly.

Let children learn to accept failure and treat setbacks correctly. Parents can instill in their children the idea that life cannot be smooth sailing, and it is normal to encounter setbacks and difficulties. When encountering difficulties, we should face them bravely and solve them, so that children can have a correct understanding of setbacks.

Second, use the setbacks in daily life for education.

Parents can start with small things in daily life, such as children breaking bowls when washing dishes, or making mistakes in homework. Through these things, they can convey an idea to their children that it is normal to have setbacks in life. Don't be discouraged, face them bravely, learn from setbacks and sum up experience in order to make better progress.

Third, improve children's frustration tolerance.

Parents can appropriately let their children suffer some setbacks. For example, the homework assigned by the teacher is very difficult, and the child has made a mistake or won't do it. Parents should not give the answer to their children or finish it for them immediately, which will reduce their frustration tolerance. The correct way is to give children appropriate encouragement and let them find and solve problems themselves, thus improving their frustration tolerance.

Fourth, give children appropriate encouragement and praise.

Children may have negative emotions in the face of setbacks. At this time, parents should encourage and praise their children in time, so that children can have the confidence to face difficulties and overcome them. For example, if a child doesn't do well in the exam, parents can say, "Although you didn't do well in the exam this time, you have been working hard and deserve praise." This can make children feel the care and support of their parents and enhance their self-confidence.

Fifth, properly let children experience the feeling of success.

After some success, children will enhance their self-confidence and self-reliance. Therefore, parents can arrange some successful things for their children according to their interests and specialties, such as doing some simple housework, puzzles, painting and so on. Let children experience the feeling of success, thus enhancing their self-confidence and self-reliance.

Sixth, cultivate children's self-confidence and self-reliance.

To make children confident and self-reliant, parents need to care more about their children in their daily lives, understand their interests and specialties, and provide them with appropriate support and help. At the same time, children should be encouraged to try new things, experience failures and setbacks, learn from them, and enhance their self-confidence and self-reliance.

In a word, correct frustration education can help children better face setbacks and difficulties in life, enhance their self-confidence and self-reliance and improve their frustration tolerance. Parents should start from the little things in life, convey correct values and attitudes to their children, and let them grow up in setbacks, so as to better adapt to social life.