(1) Children who have no education will not succeed by birth. There are rules, understand order, and physical safety is the most important. Life education comes first.
(2) Parents are too accommodating or too harsh on their children, forming two extremes. (As a result, many children now have psychological problems, don't know how to overcome difficulties, and even jump off a building. The ability to learn from setbacks is very important. When you are in pain, tears and complaints can't solve the problem. How to guide children to establish problem-solving thinking is very important, and it also tests the wisdom of parents.
(3) Delayed satisfaction and appropriate dissatisfaction. Let the children learn what they want and wait slowly. Obey and accept, learn and change.
(4) Education for daughters: read all kinds of famous books and establish a correct view of love and values. Although a daughter needs food and clothing, she can't be satisfied with everything.
(5) Never let your child become a selfish person, because selfishness, regardless of other people's feelings, will suffer in society.
(6) How to deal with things that children don't want to do but have to do (such as doing homework): Find the excitement and interest of children.
2. Adults should be people.
(1) Be a good person if you have money: for example, do charity as much as possible (do what you can), and Miss Sarah gives lectures everywhere. An old man of 7 1 year old flies in the sky 20 days a month. After receiving the notification fee, you may immediately change hands to do charity.
(2) Everyone should give people some space and dignity. Adults should give it to children, and children should learn to give it to adults.
(3) Everything can't be realistic: be smart and not 100% correct.
(4) To be a kind person, you should learn to give others a step down. There are secrets between people, so we should keep each other's bottom line.
(5) Now the complex society is diversified, and we can't criticize the good or bad of this society with a single thinking. It is also necessary to establish diversified thinking to look at the problems of this society.