Chapter 5: How to prevent children from feeling inferior?

The innate potential of children is not very important, and the judgment of adults on their own situation is not very important. It is important that we look at his situation from the perspective of a child and understand his situation with his wrong judgment.

It is very important to realize that the factors that determine a child's development are neither his internal ability nor his external environment, but his interpretation of the external reality and his relationship with the external reality. Those who believe in inner personality traits cannot and should not engage in children's education.

15 question: can children establish intimate relationships with others besides their mothers? Don't let children lose their independence even if they are sick; Whether to seek excessive attention; Are you depressed because of others' teasing? Whether to make friends with others, whether to lead others or follow others; Attitude towards the school; Whether family members have diseases; Rank in the family; Career choice; Daydreaming; Early memory; Whether there are language barriers; Ugly or beautiful, good or bad; Whether to talk about your situation publicly; If you get good grades in one subject, encourage other subjects on this basis.

Chapter VI: Social Emotion and Its Development Obstacles.

The immaturity of children's bodies makes education inevitable. The purpose of education is to rely on groups to overcome children's immaturity, and education must be social.

The social emotion of human beings is eager to contact with others, cooperate with others, accomplish tasks together, and make themselves useful to society. This is because human beings have been living in groups in a difficult natural environment.

The most important stage of cultivating social emotions is childhood and childhood, because at this time they are the most helpless and grow the slowest. Influenced by childhood environment, children's ranking at home.

Chapter VII: Children's Status in the Family

There is no way to train children to be great men. However, we must bear in mind that we must never treat children rudely. We must constantly encourage them and explain to them the meaning of real life. As an adult, how you look at the world is very important, because your opinions and ideas will be passed on to your children.

Chapter 8: A new environment as a preparation for testing.

Every new environment should be regarded as a place to test whether a child is ready. It is necessary to understand children's thoughts and feelings, and to understand children's interpretation of the environment, not parents' thoughts. The teacher's first task is to win the child's trust and then summon his courage.