I feel that at this time, the main thing is to see what the person who scolded you said. After that, according to what he said and things, you can go back after synthesis. If there is no best way, then I have a trick here, that is, no matter what he said after summing up, you tell him in a negative way! For example, the other party said, "You are so fat, don't you lose weight?" At this time, you just have to say, "Yes, I want to lose weight, because I'm afraid I'll be out of breath in two steps like you!" " "