What should a ten-year-old girl do if she is rebellious and disobedient? 1, pay attention to children's emotions, and a warm and relaxed family atmosphere can effectively help children relieve stress. Secondly, let the children speak freely. When children are found to be emotionally abnormal, parents should find the right time to talk with their children and guide them. Finally, never call your child a "bad boy". Parents should not give their children completely negative comments, but should see the advantages of their children.

2. Don't fight. Rebellious children who talk back are easy to walk into a dead end. Once they reach a dead end, they will do many unexpected things. Therefore, parents must not abuse their children, which will only make their temper more stubborn. When children make mistakes, it is best to talk to them as equal friends, and never condescending education.

Most of the children who talk back are introverted and unwilling to speak their inner thoughts. Parents of such children must talk to their children more often, explore their inner thoughts in time, and formulate educational methods according to their inner thoughts. If you talk to children often, children will regard their parents as friends, speak out when they encounter something, and their temper will change slowly.

Reasons for children's disobedience: 1. Parents' inherent education methods are no longer suitable for more and more children who are exposed to new things. As children get older, they will be exposed to more new things. If parents don't keep pace with the times, the educational concept will naturally be rejected by children, and it is inevitable to talk back.

2. Don't blame the children easily. When children talk back, many parents often criticize their children regardless of the way and occasion. Moreover, some criticisms are sharp, but they are not completely correct, which can easily hurt children's self-esteem. Some parents talk back to their children and even fly into a rage. Both of them beat and scold, thinking that if they don't suppress their "evil energy", their children may go bad. Forced repression can temporarily eliminate children's apparent resistance, but they are often verbally dissatisfied with it.

Everyone has his own dream, but not everyone can realize it. So many parents always pin their dreams on their children. It is a trap to ask children if they have dreams at first. Parents will say that any dream is good at first, and the important thing is that children like it themselves. But before long, children will be instilled with ideal dreams. On the surface, it is for the children, but in fact it is your own selfishness. This leads to the phenomenon of disobedience.