First of all, parents should be pioneers in spiritual education.
Parents are not only the guardians of children, but also the first teachers of children. Parents' words and deeds have a subtle influence on their children. During holidays, parents spend the longest time with their children and know their habits best. To this end, the work of "collecting the heart" should start from parents.
1, to provide a quiet "warm heart" environment for children.
Before school starts, parents should live according to the normal schedule of their children's school. Parents should not drink at home, play mahjong, organize recreational activities, prepare three meals a day on time, urge their children to take a nap on time, go to bed early and get up early, and adjust their biological clocks to adapt to the change of "time difference" after school starts.
2. Emotional communication with children.
Parents can choose topics that their children are interested in to communicate, such as the growth process of stars and their performance in competitions, and their feelings about watching a TV series, and dig out educational content from them, such as Phelps, who won eight gold medals in the Olympic Games, and the story of insisting on training every Christmas, so that children can know that diligence is the foundation of success and hard work is the foundation of starting a business. In addition, playing ball games, kicking shuttlecock and running with children in the morning is also an effective emotional communication, which will achieve the educational effect of moistening things quietly.
3. Encourage children to make study plans.
Parents can make plans for the new semester together with their children, complete the "channel switching" from vacation to school during the discussion, and integrate what books children should read in the new semester, who should be the benchmark, which subjects should be improved, how parents should cooperate, etc., to help children build confidence and eliminate the sense of loss after the holiday. As parents, you might as well make your own family plan and study plan, buy some famous books and books on history, people and inspiration, and read them with your children. This not only helps to cultivate children's reading interest and humanistic quality, but also helps to expand their knowledge. At the same time, it will also make children feel the learning atmosphere of the family and make them feel that "I am not studying alone, and I am not alone".
As the school begins, parents should actively guide their children to accept their own hearts with an optimistic attitude, correct methods and encouraging words, so that children can be psychologically full of expectations and confidence in the new semester.
Second, teachers should be the leaders in receiving spiritual education.
We often say that students are the main body of classroom teaching and teachers are the leaders. In fact, in any educational activities in schools, teachers are in a dominant position, and "accepting the heart" education is no exception. Whether teachers' teaching methods are appropriate during the beginning of school directly affects students' academic performance and their own teaching results. Teachers should accept the heart education from the following four aspects.
1, dial the phone and ask "accept the heart".
"Touching people, don't worry about love first." Warm heart education should be integrated with "warm heart", and teachers should intervene in advance to get the best effect. On holidays, teachers will ask students about their homework progress and what help they need by phone. Before the school starts, the class teacher tells the students what preparations to make by phone. This is a good education, which can not only give students great encouragement, but also bring the feelings between teachers and students closer, so that students can be close to the teacher and trust the teacher's practice. A famous school in our city requires each teacher to call each student at least four times during the holidays, and the effect is good. Teachers in rural schools can use holidays to visit their homes to educate their minds, and schools with conditions can establish QQ groups in classes, which can not only solve doubts and doubts through the internet, but also cultivate students' online learning ability.
2, check the homework to promote "heart".
Every school should give students holiday homework, and completing homework is the main form of students' holiday study. Holiday homework must be arranged, checked, corrected, commented and summarized. Otherwise, some students will get into the habit of doing homework during holidays. After the start of school, teachers have to work overtime to read the students' homework one by one, concentrate on commenting on the common problems in the classroom, give individual counseling on personality problems, and ask students to correct the wrong questions one by one, which can not only help students correct their wrong knowledge and review, but also help them settle down to study as soon as possible. At the same time, the school can decorate the homework exhibition hall and show the homework in different grades for students to visit.
3. Carry out activities to help "care".
Schools should educate students to accept their hearts through school meetings, class meetings, team meetings and flag-raising ceremonies, so that students can understand the significance and methods of accepting their hearts, know the goals of their schools, classes and teams, and integrate into collective life. According to the age characteristics of different students, we will carry out activities such as holiday harvest report meeting, excellent student report meeting of our alma mater, inspirational story meeting, ideal and belief essay writing, impromptu speech contest, academic competition, and psychological salon of "I want to learn in the new semester" to guide students to turn their attention to learning. Schools can also give enthusiastic speeches and post inspiring New Year greetings through opening ceremonies and window displays. Enlighten and motivate students and conduct warm-hearted education.
4. Wonderful classes attract people's attention.
At the beginning of school, the teacher's classroom teaching is the most important. Teachers should carefully prepare lessons, pay attention to stimulating students' interest, grasp the teaching capacity, organize classroom discussions, group cooperative learning and competitions, firmly grasp the excitement of students through flexible and diverse teaching methods, humorous language, cadence and relaxed teaching rhythm, and attract them to come out from the memories of wonderful TV plots and exciting online games. In addition, teachers can use the opportunity of distributing teaching materials to write spiritual messages for each student and create a strong learning atmosphere.
Schools should attach great importance to the work of accepting the heart, and teachers should pay more attention to it, promptly remind students with inattention, give individual counseling to students with obvious holiday syndrome, and do a good job in making mistakes and accepting the heart.
Third, students should be practitioners of accepting the heart.
For students, whether they can successfully pass the transition period of starting school is the most critical. Only by closing one's heart in time and relieving one's anxiety before the start of school can one keep up with the new process of the new semester. Therefore, students will be the biggest beneficiaries only if they become active practitioners. Students should take the initiative to accept their hearts from three aspects.
1, adjust the biological clock.
During the holidays, many students stayed up late and got up late because they watched TV dramas and played online games. Their biological clocks are disordered, so they must be adjusted before school starts. They should arrange their diet and daily life according to the school timetable. Three days before the start of school, don't burn the midnight oil because of late homework, which will affect the formation of life rules. After getting up in the morning, do proper physical exercise to ensure vigorous energy after school starts.
2. Prepare learning tools.
It is necessary to buy reference books, teaching AIDS and other necessary learning tools before school starts. Conditional students can help some students with family difficulties to cultivate their sense of social responsibility. Junior students can prepare daily necessities accompanied by their parents, and senior students should wash their clothes, shoes and hats and make all preparations before school starts.
3. divert attention.
Most students' holidays are mainly for rest and entertainment, supplemented by study. Teachers and parents should not interfere too much. Students are often dissatisfied with TV programs and games before school starts. At this time, students should accept their parents' opinions, take the initiative to restrain themselves, turn their attention to their studies, find out which homework needs to be improved and which knowledge is still vague, and ask their classmates and teachers in time. After you finish your homework, you can review your old knowledge, preview the knowledge of the new semester, read some useful books and warm up before school starts. After school started, I took an active part in various activities organized by the school. In class, in order to prevent mental decline, I should listen carefully, watch carefully, think positively, write carefully and read as required with my ears, eyes, hands, brain and mouth to achieve the best learning effect.
Let every student understand that education is a long-term investment, and the biggest beneficiary is not parents, but students themselves. The first bucket of gold he invested was his efforts today! So as to enhance their initiative and consciousness of accepting the heart.
"School-starting syndrome" is a normal phenomenon, just like adults are unwilling to go to work after a long vacation. This phenomenon can neither be ignored nor underestimated. As long as parents are tactful and teachers teach them scientifically, students will "accept their hearts" as soon as possible and will definitely start a new journey with greater enthusiasm.