Until one time, my grandmother climbed onto the piano and poured it in the middle of the shopping mall with a grand piano of several hundred thousand yuan in her hand. Finally, I just got a piano at home, and my parents just gave me a good lesson.
There was a long line in the cake shop. Xiao Lu's mother took Xiao Lu to buy Xiao Lu's favorite strawberry cake. Lu Xiao's mother saw that there was only the last strawberry cake left in the counter, so she walked along the path to the front of the queue. The path is noisy and I want to eat strawberry cake. So, Lu Xiao's mother told the people in the queue that the children were clamoring for strawberry cake, and there was only one left. Can we cut in line? He stood behind the man who bought the cake. The people in the queue were very angry, so the cake buyer was ready to check out, and then he said to the waiter? Can I have another strawberry cake? . Then the path burst into tears in the cake shop, and everyone in the queue behind felt very happy.
The best education parents can give their children is good upbringing.
1. Why do children have no culture?
1. Parents overindulge.
Parents' love for their children can promote their better growth, but excessive love will only harm them. When parents dote on children, children may rely on their parents' doting to do whatever they want. In particular, all members of this family like their children very much. Such children may be the apple of everyone's eye at home, but outside the society, no one will treat their children as treasures. Society is fair to everyone and will not take special care of children because of their parents' love. Therefore, while doting on their children, parents should also consider how their children should take care of themselves after leaving society. Parents who overindulge their children will lead to their children becoming ill-bred.
lead by example
The so-called children are the shadows of their parents. If parents are illiterate, how can they educate a literate child? This is almost impossible. Until parents realize their mistakes, it is impossible to talk about whether their children have been educated.
3. Growing environment
Children's growth will be influenced by many factors. Environmental factors are very important if children grow up without education. Then the child will naturally grow up in an environment, which depends on the child's friends and the child's life circle. If parents consciously turn their children into educated people, then they need to pay attention to the surrounding environment and the environment in which they live.
Whether a child is educated or not can be answered from parents. If parents can give their children a good education, then children will inevitably become educated. Parents' own quality is not high, and children will be like their parents.
Second, children are ill-bred. Why are they scolded by their parents?
1. Parental doting
There is nothing wrong with parents sometimes doting on their children, but excessive doting and pampering will make their children do whatever they want, and parents will not criticize their children too much. So many uneducated children are regarded as uneducated by outsiders because of their parents' pampering.
It was a mistake to raise your father.
When a family has children, parents' responsibilities will become great. Parents need to educate their children. Without educating them, natural children's behavior is improper because of improper parents' education.
3. Parents' usual habits
Parents are the ones who spend the longest time with their children. Parents' actions are visible to children, so they will become children's actions. If parents sometimes teach their children how to be educated, then children will naturally learn from their parents' practices instead of following their parents' education. So parents' own habits are very important.
Parents' lack of education will directly affect their children, so when people find a child without education, parents are the first to realize it. Educating children is the obligation and responsibility of parents, so parents must correct their behavior for the sake of their children's future.
3. How should parents correct their children's bad attitudes and behaviors?
1. Look at yourself.
Before educating their children, what parents should do most is to examine themselves. Check whether you have had unreasonable behavior and behavior in front of children. Because what parents do will directly affect their children. Parents correct their behavior, and children will naturally imitate their parents to be educated people.
2. Ideological correction
When children are found to have done something wrong, parents should point it out in time and severely reprimand them instead of blindly tolerating and protecting them. The best way to make a mistake is to correct it, not to hide and pass the buck. Proceed from children's thoughts, conduct correct indoctrination and guidance, and let children understand education.
3. Kindness and severity
When children make mistakes, parents should not blindly tolerate or criticize them. Parents should urge their children to change and make progress when they correctly realize their mistakes in thought. Combining kindness with kindness is the most effective way to educate children. Parents should not ask their children to do their best in a short time, but they must let them have the ability to distinguish right from wrong.
What is mapped out from children is the appearance of parents. When parents don't guide their children correctly and children don't have the concept of distinguishing right from wrong, then society will give them some education when they grow up. He understands what others understand, which may be more painful than others. So parents should give their children a correct view. Let the children grow up to be educated.