Time flies, this semester is coming to an end. At the end of each semester, I will review and reflect on the work of this semester. This semester, through the communication with students, I come to the conclusion that since I have been the head teacher of Class One for six years, the students in this class have defined me strictly and moderately, as a teacher, a loving mother and a friend!
I remember that I just took over Class One for six years, and there were four boys with special "skin" in the class, which constituted the "Four donkey kong". They are very loyal, one person has something to do, four people go out, "like to throw stones at the calm lake", and they are often criticized by their classmates, but they are dismissive and still go their own way. Also, some students in this class are not enthusiastic about learning. When the teacher was present, they pretended to be reading, saying that people were there and their hearts were in Han. This kind of atmosphere makes the overall performance of the class unsatisfactory. How to change this deadlock? At this time, I remembered a story in Aesop's Fables: the sun and the north wind bet to see who could make pedestrians take off their coats first, and the sun used its warm light to make pedestrians take off their coats easily; The north wind is blowing violently, which makes pedestrians wrap their coats more tightly. Isn't the cold wind fierce? But why not convince pedestrians? Expressive expressions often paralyze students' psychology and make it difficult for them to correct their mistakes. At the same time, it is easy for them to have rebellious psychology, and the result is often counterproductive. Emotional education is a new concept of class teacher's work, and the core of emotional education is love. I seize this bright spot and educate students. Although I will meet "puzzled" students in this process, I firmly believe that resolving students' faults is not without right or wrong, but beyond right or wrong, so that love beyond right or wrong can create a miracle of life. After this semester's guidance, the style of the class has changed a lot. Look, the "Four donkey kong" no longer makes waves, the number of violations of discipline has also dropped significantly, and the enthusiasm of the whole class has also improved. The following are my feelings in practice:
First, understand the situation and prescribe the right medicine.
If you know what you know, you can win every battle. As a class teacher, the most important thing for each class is to quickly understand the situation of each student in the class (including age, health, intelligence, quality, personality, hobbies, friends, family and so on). ). Every student has a different personality, some are lively and cheerful, and have a glib tongue. Some are reticent and don't like words. For those students who are not good at talking, I take the initiative to talk to them, pay attention to their words and deeds, and adopt an educational method of encouraging more and criticizing less, so that they feel that teachers are as harmonious and amiable as their mothers, and let students have the courage to speak freely. Tao Xingzhi said, "Come with a heart, not a blade of grass." This is especially true for poor students. We should care about them in many ways, not discriminate against them, and seize their enthusiasm and initiative in learning. Ask some simple questions in class and let them answer them, so that they can feel successful, instead of feeling useless; For students with slow thinking and slow reaction, let them pair up with students with flexible brains. Students who can do it will have a deeper understanding of the topic after explaining it to students who can't. Students who can't do it master knowledge by listening to explanations. Through pairing, the relationship between students is more harmonious and students' interest in learning is stronger.
Second, there is no education without love.
Loving students is a teacher's nature and the most precious quality. Teachers can win the support and love of students by adopting the education method of love, and at the same time, it can be transformed into the spiritual motivation of students. For example, there is a student in my class, Xiao Xiong. When he was very young, his mother left because she couldn't stand the poverty of her family. In order to support the family, my father worked outside all the year round, leaving only Xiao Xiong and two sisters of the same age at home. Xiao Xiong, who lost his maternal love and fatherly love, mixed with some small "gangsters" in the village and engaged in illegal activities. As soon as I knew this, I invited Xiao Xiong to come over: "Xiao Xiong, you once said to the teacher,' You long for a warm home and a loving mother, but you can only dream of seeing other people's children lying in their mother's arms happily'. Xiao Xiong, in the teacher's mind, you have always been regarded as your own child, and this class is your home. Look how good your classmates are to you! The teacher sincerely hopes that you will grow up happily and healthily in this family. The teacher heard that you have made some friends recently. It's good to make friends, but I heard that your friends will take you to do illegal things. So the teacher wants you to choose your friends carefully. You are a clever boy and know what to do and what not to do. There is no regret medicine in the world, you have to pull back from the cliff! " "Teacher, I know, I won't let you down!" But a few days later, a student came to report: "Teacher, I left my bike in front of the supermarket in Wang Wanjia last night. Xiao Xiong from your class stole my bike." Hearing this news, I flew into a rage and really wanted to slap him, but on second thought, it would only make him feel worse, so I invited him over: "People who don't know are innocent, but you know how to deal with you." The teacher tried many ways to teach you a lesson, but you are a child after all, and it takes a process to completely change. The teacher will give you another chance. If you do it again, the teacher will never spare you. "Confidence is a bridge to transform setbacks. The moral shock brought by tolerance is sometimes stronger than punishment. With my repeated emotional encouragement, Xiao Xiong completely changed this bad habit. Mr Xia Gaizun once said, "It's like digging a pool. Some people say that the square is good, others say that the circle is good, and it keeps changing, but no one notices that water is the element of the pool. What is water in education? It's love, it's love. Without love, education will become a stagnant pool. Whether you are square or round, you can't escape a kind of emptiness. "
As the saying goes, "those who are near the ink are black, and those who are near the ink are black." Whether a person can grow up healthily is closely related to the people around him and the surrounding environment. Students spend a long time getting an education at school. They are innocent and flawless, just like a blank sheet of paper, which can draw the latest and most beautiful pictures. In the eyes of students, the image of teachers is great, and teachers' teaching is the guiding light. Therefore, as a class teacher, we should spend enough time, energy and effort to do a good job in students' ideological work; Use the teacher's love to influence students and make tomorrow's flowers more fragrant and attractive!