China has a saying: Look forward to the success of your child and your daughter. This is the reason why parents in China have achieved a high degree of unity in re-education of their children. There is another sentence: raising children to prevent old age. China has a tradition of thousands of years. Only when children get good grades can they better support their children and prevent their old age.

The reason why China's parents achieve a high degree of unity in education is:

First, the means of education is single.

In ancient times, fame was the only way to get promoted. According to the order of ancient scholars, agriculture, industry and commerce, scholars ranked first. Therefore, gaining fame and official position is the best way for the class to jump, and other classes are behind, especially ancient businessmen.

This is why there is such an absurd scene as "Fan Jinzhong Drama". After failing many science exams, Jin Fan was ecstatic and finally won a bonus. He was almost crazy.

There is also an idiom, "When one person gets the word, chickens and dogs ascend to heaven". To make a metaphor, when a person becomes an official, people who are related to him also become officials.

Of course, there are positive examples. Meng Mu received a good education from Mencius, and Meng Mu moved three times. And Mencius finally made great achievements.

All of the above are due to the single promotion method in ancient times, which led to the unification of parents in educating their children, because there is only one way out.

In fact, the modern environment is similar. Studying and going to a good university is still one of the important means to break through the class.

Second, the way to success is single.

With the development of society now, although there are many ways to get rich and cross-class ways, there are actually only a few:

1, enter the ranks of national civil servants: take exams, take postgraduate exams, and take civil servants. This article is about the way out of learning;

2. Enter the society early and make a name for yourself. This is a way to get rich through hard work.

With the development of modern social strata becoming more and more fixed, these two roads have become more important choices.

Although information in modern society is developed and people choose more and more ways to educate their children, in the final analysis, the above two points are still there. Everyone's purpose is still unified.

Therefore, the core of China parents' education for their children is still the same: utility+purpose is very obvious. In this way, China parents can't get rid of the shackles and really give their children the right to choose freely.

Of course, this is not to say that this road is completely wrong. On the contrary, this road has proved to be an important way for children to obtain favorable social resources in the future. It's just that in the process, we sacrificed something.

Third, single cognition.

Single cognition is easy to understand.

In addition to parents with good family conditions, they can make their offspring completely worry about the future through their strong social relations or rich backgrounds, so they can choose more diversified educational methods and let their children choose relatively freely.

In this way, children have gained more personality and cognitive versatility, and getting ahead is no longer the only purpose and education method.

However, China's parents have not yet achieved one of their goals, and they still hope that their children will achieve more social achievements in the future.

So in the final analysis; China parents have achieved a high degree of unity in educating their children;

On the one hand, it is the social tradition. For thousands of years, the concept of "looking for a child to become a dragon, looking for a woman to become a phoenix" has influenced the formation of a single educational goal;

Second, society has not developed to the point where it can achieve great wealth and social resources and freely meet all human needs.