Recently, there was a hot video on the Internet, in which a pair of post-90s children were accused of watching TV all night. The children are sleepy and sleep on the sofa. Parents take turns to wake up their children and continue watching TV. The children don't do their homework or sleep, but they just want to watch TV. Faced with such a situation, parents really have a headache. The children are disobedient and can't beat him. The 90-year-old couple came up with such a method of "corporal punishment" for their children. Don't you like watching TV? Then let you see enough at a time, completely satisfy you, don't sleep tonight, just watch it here for one night. In fact, the purpose of doing this is to let children really remember this lesson. Does it really work? Short-term is bound to be effective, very effective, and many netizens agree. This kind of education is actually a punitive education. Corporal punishment of students is not advocated now. Maybe people will say that this is not corporal punishment. First of all, let's understand the definition of corporal punishment: of course, teachers are mentioned here, but in the process of education, no matter what role, children can't be educated by corporal punishment or disguised corporal punishment. Therefore, according to the definition of corporal punishment, it is not only physical punishment, but also psychological punishment. This way of "showing you enough at once" has actually caused a great psychological blow to children. If a lot of things are done like this, I can't imagine what children will grow up to be. In fact, there are many positive educational methods for children's education: First, parents should not set a negative example for their children. Parents are the first teachers in children's life, and children in childhood have a strong imitation ability, which is easily influenced by family environment and parents' education methods. In order to reduce children's attacks on others, parents must change the way of education and resolutely put an end to corporal punishment of children. Second, communicate with children more. While parents are busy with their work, they must also take as much time as possible to get to know their children, communicate with them, and try to fully grasp their performance at school and at home. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, parents can understand how to guide the child instead of beating and scolding the child to solve the problem. No matter how young children are, parents should treat them equally. Some rude parents are always used to beating and cursing their children, which can easily make them feel disgusted with their parents. In this way, children will not be understood by their parents, and the gap between them will become deeper and deeper. Therefore, parents should communicate with their children more and let them know that their parents understand him. In this way, children can also feel the love and care of their parents, thus actively correcting their mistakes. Third, always reason with children. When children are disobedient or willful, parents should not only communicate with their children in daily life, but also pay attention to their own educational methods. Parents should reason with their children more, and they can educate sensible children without beating and cursing. Parents should be more reasonable with their children in real life, let them have empathy, and let them learn to put themselves in their own shoes and realize their own shortcomings. Facts have proved that children are more likely to accept their parents' opinions spontaneously and the educational effect is more ideal. Fourth, use appreciation education instead of corporal punishment to educate children, so that children can feel the unconditional love of their parents. Even if children find it difficult to change bad habits, they will gradually restrain their bad behaviors in order to love their parents. So I don't think it's appropriate to punish children for watching TV all night. We should actively guide and educate children. What do you know about this kind of education?