Children around the age of 3 who have a correct view of gender will clearly know whether they are boys or girls, but they will also ask curiously, why do girls wear skirts with long hair and play with family drinks, while boys wear pants with short hair and play with horses? Play, this is the beginning of children's gender psychology. At this stage, mothers should pay attention to two principles, one is to let boys know how to protect their bodies, and the other is to let boys have a positive image of all parts of their bodies. In fact, as an only child, he has been loved by his parents and elders since he was a child, and rarely does outdoor sports. He likes watching cartoons at home, playing computer games, getting used to jumping and thinking illogically, and doesn't know how to feel the people and things around him. Is it easy? Become selfish and indifferent. Some boys are old enough to get married and still think like children. They don't have the knowledge of "shoulders" and can't bear the heavy burden. Therefore, the sooner a mother trains a boy to know his gender, the better.
Nature teaches sexual knowledge. For the child's sexual problems, the mother should try to tell him in simple words, which are all natural things, so that the child can understand the body correctly and scientifically. Mother will say the words "breast" and "penis" generously, just as naturally as telling him that this is an apple and that is a banana. Of course, it is necessary to tell children at the same time that some parts of a person's body are private and privacy cannot be exposed, otherwise it will be embarrassing. Mothers should first correct their own thoughts, so as to give boys correct guidance. In fact, boys' questions about sex are as simple as "What to eat tonight". Mom only needs a very intuitive answer, and too many in-depth answers will make the boy's thinking disorder.
Strengthening sex education in the early stage of educational morality is related to the healthy growth of boys' body and mind, and also to the stability of families and society. Sex education includes many aspects such as sex physiology, sex psychology, sex morality and sex ethics, among which sex morality is a very important part. Sexual morality is the sum total of social norms that human beings regulate sexual behavior of both sexes. It can maintain the stability of social order and ensure the normal progress of social life. Generally speaking, the content of sexual morality can be summarized as follows: sexual moral norms; Correct views on love, chastity and fertility. Its core is love and respect. Mothers should send positive messages to boys through nonverbal behaviors, such as mutual respect, loyalty, sharing housework, respecting the old and loving the young, helping others, being polite, doing homework conscientiously and being honest and trustworthy. This is the best education for children.
When the child asks "How did I come?", parents should answer the child's sexual question frankly. Parents [Weibo] should take a scientific, emotional and natural answer to this question and tell the child that this is the product of the combination of the father's sperm and the mother's egg. Perhaps by telling stories, children can understand the whole process of life. For example, "after parents fall in love and get married, mom and dad really want a baby, so a sperm that can give birth to a baby in dad's body will drill into mom's stomach and combine with an egg that can also give birth to a baby to become a fertilized egg. The fertilized egg is very small, with the size of a needle tip, but it will grow up day by day in a place called uterus in the mother's stomach, live in the mother's uterus for ten months, and mature? Later, it will come out of a hole under the mother and become a baby. "
And seize the opportunity at the right time. Teach children relevant scientific knowledge, let them acquire correct sexual knowledge, and let them understand that fertility requires the joint efforts of both men and women to combine in some way in order to have a baby; And only women can have children, but? There should be a man to help when giving birth. Mothers can feed their children with breasts or bottles. Women can be mothers when they grow up, and men can be fathers when they grow up. Therefore, parents are very important to their children. As far as modern children are concerned, the more taboo they are, the stronger their curiosity will be. Nowadays, social ways such as internet and media are so rich and prosperous. If children can't get scientific sexual knowledge from proper channels, they are likely to have incorrect views and knowledge about sex with their age, which is harmful to their physical and mental health.
Therefore, when children ask similar sexual questions, parents should not avoid, panic or lie. They should use scientific emotions and methods and words that children can bear and understand to answer children's questions quickly and correctly and satisfy their curiosity and thirst for knowledge.