The healthy growth of children is inseparable from sex education.
1. After the child is born, regardless of gender, the choice of name, clothing and daily necessities should not be confused, so as to avoid the child's vague understanding of himself and others from an early age and affect his sexual orientation.
2. When children can hear the language, parents must clearly distinguish gender education in bathing, clothing, hairstyle and toy selection. Through books, newspapers, picture books, movies, stories, etc. Children can observe the growth and reproduction of animals and plants, so that children can have a natural understanding of reproduction, accept nature, love others, understand the essence of life and complete their own understanding.
3. Exploring your body freely is a good start for health education. In family life, parents choose appropriate opportunities, such as taking a bath and going to bed. Let children know their own bodies naturally, especially that the reproductive organs are as mysterious as other organs of the human body, and keep them clean and develop good hygiene habits.
4. When children ask questions about sex, parents should not avoid them, but answer them in a language and way that children can understand and accept, so that children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge can be solved and satisfied.
5. The frequently encountered problems should be correctly understood. For example, how are people born? Starting from the flowering and fruiting of plants, we can link sex and reproduction, and we can also make a demonstration metaphor from the reproductive activities of animals. A brief introduction to human reproductive physiology is helpful for children to understand this problem. When conducting sex education, we must honestly say that we should encourage those children who are not too complicated to have a desire for knowledge, which will naturally delay the specific details from being understood in later life.
6. The pattern of parents' own behavior is also very important. If the feelings between parents are sincere, harmonious and noble, set a good example for children, let them fall in love with life and treat sexual problems correctly. Children's sex education is closely related to family education.
If you always emphasize children's opinions and bad sex, rebellious children just want to oppose you.
2. Don't underestimate the educational background of boys.
Talking about sex with girls is actually very simple.
This is because children can talk to her about this topic when they have menarche, fear or anxiety. If the child is a boy and he is found to have wet dream, you can talk to him.
Judging from the current situation, the education of boys is not enough, because according to the survey, girls know their bodies and sexual impulses better than boys.
3. Define sex as the process of love.
Explain how it started-smiling, hugging, kissing, touching, making love.
Boys and girls should have different ways of education.
You must teach your daughter that when her boyfriend makes such a request, she must learn to say no to her face.
Because of the lack of education, some girls just look at other places and don't talk, which will send the wrong message to boys and get pregnant.
In addition, teach your son to speculate on the danger of human reaction. The defendant was raped because he probably didn't get a confession.
5. Listen to the children's voices.
Every era has its own impressions or values about sex. Think about how you treated "sex" in the sixties and seventies. The more you know about children's attitudes, the more you know how to educate them.
6. Understand under what circumstances he will make the decision of sexual intercourse.
Is this because when you feel strong, you are born, confused by others, or the reaction after drinking and taking medicine? Understand this and then give proper education.