In many European countries, beating children is illegal, so foreign parents rarely punish their children. Foreign mothers like to use cold treatment, because many times children make mistakes on purpose, which can't attract parents' attention and can't achieve their goals in this way. Then, if parents do the opposite and deliberately don't fall for it, the child will naturally be helpless.

cold-treat

At any time, children will make a scene in public. If it doesn't affect others, mothers often turn a blind eye and let the children make trouble by themselves. If it affects others, she will immediately take the child away, put it in a relatively open and quiet place, and let him continue to make trouble until it is enough.

forewarn

Parents may wish to calm down and give their children an "early warning" when choosing punishment. Tell him clearly: if you commit a crime, I will slap you three times (or: confiscate toys, punish you for writing a guarantee, etc.) This way can help children quickly understand their parents' intentions.

Help children

For some irrelevant things, parents can relax and don't rush to blame their children. Maybe the children made a mistake unintentionally. The foreign mother has a good attitude, but when the child accidentally makes a mistake, she and the child stand on the same side and try to solve the problem. With the support of mothers, children often know how to take responsibility and understand the consequences of doing something wrong.