I think the good behavior standard of a family is family training, and the unique fashion of a family is family style. Good home wind energy reflects the family members' tutoring and literacy. But it needs the obedience of every family member, and a good family style can cultivate educated family members. Parents' words and deeds are very important to their children. This is the so-called example. I am a happy child and grew up in a beautiful environment. Happy laughter, beautiful music and reading have been lingering in my happy cabin, accompanying me to grow up. My parents always lead by example, teach by example, guide me to study hard and exercise actively, which makes me have a strong interest in learning and develop good living habits. Of course, this is also due to the family instructions formulated by my father. My family motto is the principle of "five elements", that is, being a man, learning, using, exercising and living. Being a man is fundamental, being a body is fundamental, learning is the means, using is the purpose, and living is the ideal.
The revitalization and development of a family can not be separated from the family style and family education created by leading the family to success. The formation of family style and family education will experience the accumulation and efforts of several generations or even generations. It sums up the gains and losses and experiences of countless families in previous lives, and becomes a unique magic weapon suitable for one's own family or family reality, leading the family or family to glory.
Indeed, in this land where I was born and raised, my parents experienced too many difficult days. Although our generation often heard of "old society" and "land contracting to households", those hard years did not leave a deep impression on us; Because my parents have long regarded the hardships of the past as a spirit, and a family style of facing life positively and being diligent and frugal has spread to our generation.
There are four family styles in my family: one is a positive attitude towards life; Second, be conscientious and thrifty; Third, be kind and sincere to people; Fourth, filial piety to elders.
There are four explanations here: parents always say that a positive attitude towards life is very important to us. They are always very kind to their children in daily life. They never talk about the difficulties of making a living at home in front of the younger generation. They often tell me that when they were young, my father (my grandfather) was busy running around to raise tuition fees every few days before school started. What our parents told us in memory is that tomorrow will be better. Study hard in good times. No matter what school you go to, your family will support you. There is no difficulty that cannot be solved. As long as we want to buy books or some school supplies, we will always get what we want. When we are promoted from primary school to junior high school and senior high school, this positive attitude will be transformed into a spirit and inspire us.
Today, you don't need to build a perfect wall, you just need to build a perfect brick and move forward step by step. This is the second point of being a tutor in doing things seriously. You can't eat a fat man in one bite. Everything should not be impatient, but it must be taken seriously. Start with small things. Everyone in the family will take the initiative to do housework, whether at school or at home now. Parents lead by example. They are thrifty. Their clothes and shoes are worn out, so they can't go out until they buy new ones. They always give us delicious food when we eat. We have been exposed to this thrifty atmosphere since childhood, teaching us not to waste or be extravagant.
Third, be kind and sincere to people. When I was very young, the familiar stories of Kong Rong smashing pears and Sima Guang were printed in our minds. My parents taught us to be honest, to be upright, to be honest, and to correct mistakes when we know them. "Honesty is the foundation of life and career" is my father's mantra. My parents taught me to be honest when I was young. When I realize my mistake, I must correct it and not lie. Parents let us know that there is no such thing as a free lunch. A rich life should be created by our own hands, and only by struggling can we realize our ideals. My parents always say that the happiest thing in our family is that we do well in exams, and a hearty meal is a way for my parents to encourage me. It is always fun and interesting to talk with my relatives about things in my study and life. No matter what stage of my studies and age, this feeling of happiness and fun has never diminished.
The fourth is to honor parents and respect elders. My parents always tell me: all virtues are filial first! Family style is a motto that should be kept in mind. With it, we can gain a foothold in society and go further! Keep in mind the family style, lay a solid foundation in life, take firm steps and become a pillar of the country!
Over the years, I deeply understand that these four family styles of family education will be passed on to the next generation, and in our big family, this excellent family style of family education has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, no matter how successful the children are in their studies or their careers; We can't forget our parents' inculcation, so that we have to set an example to educate our younger generation. With the continuous development of society, the living environment and various conditions are getting better and better, but these excellent spirits will never be forgotten. They inspire us to be positive and teach us to face life and not be discouraged when encountering difficulties.
Good family style inheritance is the premise of the healthy development of social fashion. Every family should establish its own family style and tutor. As the core of the family, it is duty-bound to shoulder this important task, form the cohesion of the family and promote the progress and development of social fashion. Contribute to the realization of the great "Chinese dream, my dream"; Thousands of families have joined forces to become a powerful force for rejuvenating China.
Speech on Family Education and Family Style (2)
The family is the nursery and the children are the seedlings. The family wind is like raindrops, which sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently. Only under the moisture of rain and dew can the seedlings grow healthily. Only under the influence of good family style can children stand out. Recently, with the popularity of the word "family style", I can't help seeing photos of my grandparents educating me.
When I was a child, my grandmother always told me a few words before going to school: Son, don't grind your teeth with your classmates at school (Bozhou proverb means quarreling or fighting). If someone bullies you, come back and tell me, and I'll go to your teacher. ! Grandma is afraid that I will have conflicts with my classmates at school. She always gives me political lessons and tells some classic stories when I am free. She taught me to be frank when things go wrong, to get along well with teachers and classmates at school, and not to conflict with others easily. Under grandma's inculcation, I basically have no contradiction with my teachers and classmates.
Grandpa loves to tell me a lot about his experiences as a soldier, warning me that few young people nowadays can bear hardships and stand hard work. Learn to bear hardships from an early age, otherwise you can't do great things! Grandpa also taught me that you can only be a master if you have suffered. Only after experiencing an unbearable environment can we cultivate real talents and excel in our future work and life. Perhaps this is the reason why people will be relegated to a great post, so first of all, we should work hard and starve them, I think.
Now, I have entered high school and become a high school student. I have developed a good habit of being helpful, hard-working and simple. Come to think of it carefully, these are closely related to our family style. Grandma still gives me political lessons before going to school every time, and grandpa still tells me the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation from time to time before and after meals, such as diligence and thrift, hard work and so on. I'm happy to listen to them, because that's a good family style in our family.
I have been thinking that it is a national culture worth promoting to establish a correct family style and inherit excellent family rules and family instructions. Now some bad habits in society have gradually withdrawn from people's sight, and positive energy has been passed on. If we add a good family style to create it, then the atmosphere of our society will be purer, the people's lives will be better and the country's future will be more prosperous!
Speech on Family Education and Family Style (3)
I live in the countryside, and my parents often tell me: people are not poor, they must be honest, and they must be honest when looking for money. I didn't understand that sentence at that time. It was not until I was eight years old that Lele let me understand the meaning of this sentence.
When I was eight years old, Lele and I went to Huadu Lake to ride bicycles. Lele and I rode halfway when we suddenly saw a beautiful wallet. Say to Lele: Lele, look! A beautiful wallet was left on the ground, and we are going to be rich! Let's take it home! Lele was very angry and said, we can't take this wallet back. If we take this wallet back, the owner of this wallet will be very anxious. Let's take this wallet to the lost place. Okay？ Hearing this, I feel extremely ashamed. So I said to Lele, Lele, let's take this wallet to the lost place now. Lele was in a better mood when she heard this. She immediately took the beautiful wallet and dragged me to the lost place.
Lele and I rode bicycles together, talking and laughing. After riding for almost seven minutes, Lele and I got lost. When I got to the lost and found office, Lele gave my wallet to my aunt in the lost and found office. My aunt saw me and said to Lele and me, "You are really two good children who can't hide money!" " ! Lele and I listened and smiled sweetly.
Soon, the owner of the wallet came to the lost and found office, and her aunt told her, look, the two children sitting there. They found your wallet. The owner of the wallet knew it and thanked us again and again. We repeatedly said: You're welcome! So Lele and I continued to ride together.
From this incident, I understand that a person must be honest.