1, trust your child.

If parents want to get twice the result with half the effort in educating their children, they must first gain the trust of their children. If children trust us, they will believe everything we say, and naturally they will not be rebellious.

But we need to trust each other. Parents should believe that their children are excellent. When they make mistakes, don't blame them blindly, but patiently teach them ways and means to do things. This will give children more care and confidence, and they will become better.

2. Persuade rebellious children

When dealing with children's rebellion, don't just block it, block it while not blocking it, just like Dayu's water control. If parents blindly suppress all children's activities, children are prone to rebellious psychology, and after rebellious psychology, regardless of whether parents say it right or not, children will only blindly resist, which is very unfavorable to the relationship between parents and children.

Therefore, the correct way is that you should not only tell her that this is wrong, but also tell her how to make it better and put forward a reasonable solution on the basis of mutual satisfaction.

Step 3 walk into children's lives

Try to integrate into children's lives. Sometimes the generation gap appears because people have different world views and different living environments. Try to integrate into their lives, see what they usually like and think about why. You can also try to like it, so that she will think you are more like her friend, and she will tell you what's on her mind, so that you can give her the right guidance instead of just guessing what's wrong with her.

Parents should learn to listen to rebellious children.

If a child tells you what's in his heart, you must listen patiently and don't rush to refute it, so you may not hear their true inner voice and may deepen the contradiction between you. Listen patiently, she may say something complaining about you. You should explain and tell her the reason for your behavior, and you should also tell her that you love her. In fact, most adolescent children rebel because she doesn't feel love.

5. Observe more in communication.

There are many ways to communicate. If parents have been immersed in the role of parents who are anxious and worried about their children, communication will deviate from the rational way. Therefore, it is advisable to observe what problems exist in their communication with their children, look at their rebellion from a bystander's point of view and communicate with them from different angles.

Step 6 lead by example

Parents are children's first teachers, and their interests will have a great influence on children. Parents can cultivate their children's love for learning through their own words and deeds. Parents need to keep learning and make progress with their children. Parents can gradually improve their cultural level by studying and self-studying, and even worship their children as teachers, which can greatly stimulate their interest in learning.