1, rewards and punishments are clear. When you restrict some behaviors of children, it is easy to make them resist. At this time, parents can use some rewards and punishments to restrain their children, and some children will try to get rewards. Over time, children will become excited and self-disciplined.
2. Give children the opportunity to do things by themselves. Some children are lazy, just being used by their parents. Especially in the one-child family, grandparents take care of the baby together and don't need the child to do anything. Dressing in the morning, washing face and brushing teeth, and eating are all done by others to help children. Children are like a machine that parents can pick up, and gradually they will get used to being helped to do everything.
3. Parents lead by example. As a child's first teacher, parents' words and deeds have a far-reaching influence on children, especially children like to imitate their parents. If parents themselves can't be role models for their children to learn, naturally they can't expect their children to become excited and sensible.
The essence of education is as follows:
1, the essence of education refers to the fundamental relationship between the internal elements of education and the fundamental characteristics of education as a social activity different from other social activities. As opposed to "educational phenomenon". Education is an activity to cultivate people. Education has existed since the beginning of human society, and its function is to transmit social production and life experience and promote human development according to the requirements of a certain society.
2. Cultivate talents needed by society. This basic feature exists in various social education activities and distinguishes it from other human social activities. Education is a unique social phenomenon in human society. Although in the animal kingdom, especially in the higher animal kingdom, there is a phenomenon of "education", "teaching" and "learning" between generations similar to human beings.
3. But these two seemingly similar phenomena are essentially different. Education is a unique conscious activity of human beings. Animals only have the most basic reflection forms of life-stimulus sensitivity and animal psychology, and only people are conscious. People can reflect the essence and laws of things through abstract rational thinking.