Teaching children must pay attention to methods.
In reality, many parents often nag, accuse, yell and even severely abuse their children under the banner of "everything is good for their children". This wrong way of education not only fails to achieve the expected educational effect, but also makes children more rebellious. If this is the case, it is normal to protect the elders. The correct way is that children ask more questions, communicate more, listen more and guide more. The key to giving children a chance to make mistakes is to reflect deeply afterwards and really grow up.
Seriously communicate with parents.
Find opportunities to communicate with parents alone, tell them that it is too bad for their children to protect them, and find some real-life examples to illustrate. Tell your parents to protect him now. When children enter school and society, no one will protect them anymore. If we overprotect them, our children will lose the ability to communicate with others and deal with problems. With the excessive protection of parents, children will not realize their own problems, nor will they consider problems from the perspective of others, which has a great influence on the cultivation of children's sense of responsibility. So in the long run, our overprotection of children is actually a kind of harm.
Listen to parent-child lessons for parents
In the process of taking Erbao with me, there are often many problems. I will buy a lot of educational parenting classes and come back to study. There are also many parent-child audio classes on the Internet. Every time I finish learning, I will benefit a lot and bring good results to my children. Parents always protect their children. You can buy some books or audio lessons for your parents to learn. In fact, the best way to raise children is to improve yourself first and learn and grow with children. You can also teach yourself and share your experience with your parents.
Insist on parent-child reading
Insisting on parent-child reading is the best gift for our children and the best way to increase parent-child feelings. Parent-child reading is conducive to children's literacy, and there are many writing methods. The most important thing is the truth and stories in the book, which can influence and infect children. In fact, many problems of children can be removed from reading. Children read and think a lot. The next time you encounter problems and things, the elders will protect you, and the children will take the initiative to express their ideas and are unwilling to accept the protection of the elders. Falling in love with reading is a good habit that children benefit from all their lives.
Educate children alone
Educate your children. If it is useless to communicate and negotiate with parents, then the next time the child has a problem, communicate or chat with the child alone. Avoid parents and teach children in class. Or take the children out for a walk alone. Remember to educate children to give priority to guidance, listen carefully first, ask more questions and talk less, and let children solve problems from the heart. To educate children, we must first pay attention to our own learning and growth and set a good example for them.