First, be calm when educating children.
When children make mistakes, they must communicate with them in time. When children and themselves are calm, it is best to educate them well. Communication is the best way to solve problems, but the premise is that parents and children's emotions should not be too high, otherwise communication will eventually become a quarrel. Second, don't beat and scold.
Parents want their children to realize that they are wrong, but if they beat and scold, their children will be afraid and don't know where they are wrong.
When the child is calm, be sure to tell the child what he did wrong and tell the child what kind of adverse effects it will have if he continues to miss it like this. Third, don't be soft-hearted.
In children's minds, parents are the most important. Therefore, when parents criticize their children, the children will always be particularly wronged and will not look at their parents with poor eyes.
At this time, the most taboo is to hold the child directly in your arms to appease, which will make the child feel that every time he makes a mistake, he can solve the problem in this way. Therefore, when educating children, we must not be soft-hearted. We must let them know what is wrong and then tell them to correct it. Fourth, tell children that parents will make mistakes.
Some children will deny themselves when they make mistakes and think that they are not good enough.
When parents educate their children, they can also tell them that parents will make the same mistakes, and the most important thing is to correct them in time. ?
While educating children, we should also affirm their advantages and make them realize that they are also excellent.
If the child's mood is particularly unstable when educating the child, be sure to wait until the child calms down before communicating with the child.
Because at this time, children can't listen to what adults say, but it will make adults more tired when educating children.