In July, Xiao Xia got a job training opportunity. This training is not only in the beautiful Hangzhou, but also the teachers are all big coffee in the industry. Xiao Xia really wants to go, and the time is half a month. However, Xiao Xia's husband firmly opposed it. The reason is that the time is too long-what if the child is not at home for such a long time? I'm so busy at work that I have to deal with housework? ! Xiao Xia's husband didn't even think that Xiao Xia had a job and took care of his family when he was busy with his work. Xiao Xia usually does almost all the housework. Xiao Xia's husband just helps wash the dishes and mop the floor, which depends entirely on his mood. Xiao Xia's husband knows nothing about children's education, homework guidance, how to use washing machines and rice cookers, and is too lazy to learn.

Xiao Xia didn't mean to. Xiao Xia's husband thinks Xiao Xia is immoral and his home is untidy. The two often quarrel about it. In addition, Xiao Xia's husband also needs Xiao Xia's help at work. The problems he can't handle need Xiao Xia to help him solve on the computer for a long time. Xiao Xia didn't want to quarrel and compromise everywhere, but Xiao Xia knew that in her heart, she simply looked down on a man who was incompetent at work and lacked warmth in life. The image of Xiao Xia's husband taking care of his husband when he was in love has now disappeared. Like a child, let love overflow and cheat.

This is "macrosomia", but how was the macrosomia born?

They must have a mother who dotes on them very much and wants to do everything, because "I'm afraid you will fall down on the road, so I'll help you walk the road you want." See how much I love you ",which leads to the child's slow psychological growth, unable to bear the responsibilities of the husband and father in the family, and let the wife continue to be her own" mother ".

There is still a long way to go before "Giant Baby" becomes a teenager and eventually a real man. Here, Xiao Xia can encourage her husband's growth and "show weakness" appropriately, so that her husband can feel his important position in the family. Men's laziness is also the soil of "giant children" It is also an effective way to cultivate the emotion between two people, let the husband make more decisions and enhance the execution.