Parents of healthy families love their children deeply, not to share their achievements with themselves, not to stay with their children forever, but to push their children out of their homes and into the wider world, so that they can live an independent life. In the family, the relationship between husband and wife is the core. In order to establish a healthy family system, we must put the relationship between husband and wife in the most important position in the family. No matter how much you love your children, they will leave you and live their own lives. And your spouse is the one who will really accompany you all your life. Parents should have a good attitude when facing problems. When the child reaches the sensitive period, don't panic and don't feel that the sensitive period is not good. It is necessary to understand the sensitive period of each period, so as to understand the needs of children by observing their behavior. Don't perfunctory children, try to tell them and answer them with scientific and correct answers.

Communicate with children in time. Have enough communication with children in life, communicate in time, listen to their true thoughts, and let them feel the love of their parents. The child has a big temper and locks himself in the room when quarreling with his family. In this case, parents should try to communicate with their children and consider whether there is a problem with this quarrel. Let the child calm down slowly through the door. After the child opens the door, he can continue to communicate and analyze the contradictions in different environments, and tell the child what grievances are directly told to his parents. Children also have a certain degree of psychological pressure, such as anxiety, insecurity, pressure from parents' expectations, and lack of freedom in collective life. Some powerful parents even think that their children don't need privacy and freedom, and they have a strong desire to control their children's lives, which makes them afraid.

If children are under too much pressure, they will have negative emotions such as anxiety. Then taking children out to play is an ideal way. It can not only enhance emotional communication with children, but also give children a relaxed mood. During this period, parents can communicate with their children in language, stabilize their children with gentle tone and enlighten their problems. Don't vent your emotions on children. This will give children a misunderstanding that you are in a bad mood and can vent it on others. In this way, children can't think from each other's perspective, and naturally they can't understand other people's feelings. Therefore, parents should set a good example for their children, encourage them to express their bad emotions, or divert their attention and let them learn to control their emotions. When necessary, scolding and corporal punishment can also be used as a means to punish children's mistakes, but after a long time, children will have negative emotions such as negativity, inferiority, cowardice and rebellion. Sometimes, parents will yell at their children because they cry, which is not good for them.