1. Parents should shape their own image.
Be firm and bold in doing things, be calm in the face of problems, be calm in the face of things, especially mothers, and try not to show weakness in front of children. Parents are the best teachers for children. Parents' attitudes affect children's views on setbacks. No one will always succeed and never fail. Parents should not make a fuss when their children experience failure. If you are nervous, it will make your child feel that it is a big deal. If you are calm, it will bring him confidence and give him a positive psychological hint: frustration is not so terrible! Some of our parents beat and scold their children when they encounter a little failure. Comparing their children with others' children will only make them feel ashamed of setbacks and unable to face them bravely.
Second, it is very important to grasp the opportunity of frustration education and take into account the tolerance of children of different ages.
It not only encourages people to resist setbacks, but also is good at protecting their self-confidence.
3. When children face difficulties, parents should let their children intuitively understand the development process of things, and gradually realize the universality and objectivity of setbacks from repeated experiences, so as to truly feel that they will encounter difficulties in doing anything, and the joy of success comes from the solution of problems.
Only by letting children feel and understand setbacks in overcoming difficulties can they cultivate their fearless ability in the face of setbacks.
Quick success and instant benefit is the root cause of impatience with setbacks. It's easy to lose patience if you always want to do it in one step. Malasen has to run over one meter and swim across the one-meter strait, win the final victory with strong will, cultivate the spiritual willpower of "persistence is victory", and make children more and more qualified and excellent.