1. It's hard to get pregnant

In order to give birth to a healthy and intelligent baby, mothers often start a breakthrough model from the stage of pregnancy. Love spicy food, but also resolutely gave up favorite Sichuan cuisine and hot pot. Those who don't like sports also bite their teeth and start to enter the gym after work every night. Night owls who like to stay up late have to throw away their mobile phones and go to sleep early. The process of pregnancy preparation is like a long March, which needs attention from many aspects such as diet and daily life, and also needs to bear certain psychological pressure. But for the sake of the baby, these hardships need to be bravely borne.

2. Production difficulties

How difficult is natural childbirth? The head circumference of a normal fetus can grow to about 34 cm, while the weight of a healthy newborn is generally 5-7 kg. It is such a big fetus that its pain can be imagined if it wants to "drill out" from the narrow birth canal. With the progress of delivery, it will also cause bursts of contractions, which will aggravate the pain of the parturient. The whole production process can be divided into cervical dilatation, fetal delivery and placental delivery, and each step is a kind of torture for pregnant mothers.

3. Breastfeeding is difficult

Breastfeeding of children is what mothers should worry about. Breastfeeding worries about children's lack of nutrition and mothers' lack of milk, and using milk powder worries about the quality of milk powder. Whether it is imported milk powder or domestic milk powder, it is difficult for consumers to choose a really good milk powder. Newborns have not yet formed a fixed routine. They often wake up in the middle of the night, crying and crying. After a hard day's work, Ma Bao had to get up to nurse. This can be called mental and physical torture.

Second, the mother's second difficulty: the cultivation of children

1. Children's values cultivation

In children's education, we often say that adults come first and talents come later. A child without correct values and moral standards, no matter how excellent, is harmful to society. The cultivation of children's values should start at an early age, which is also what every mother pays special attention to. From the choice of early education books, to all kinds of words and deeds for children, to the circle of friends who care about their growth, mothers can't relax for a moment, for fear that if they don't pay attention to their children, they will go astray.

2. Children's academic performance training

Nowadays, the competition in society is becoming more and more fierce. If you don't have excellent academic performance, how can you stand in the society in the future? Every mother takes the initiative to play the role of "accompanying student" when her child reaches school age. In order to let the children have a hot breakfast before going to school, the mother gets up at 5 o'clock every day to cook for the children; In order to let the children sleep for a while and keep up with their academic performance, the mother picked up the textbooks that had been forgotten for many years and studied with the children.

3. Cultivation of children's hobbies

For the all-round development of children, mothers have become experts in education one by one, studying the help of various hobbies to their children's success. Calligraphy, fine arts, music, dance, Olympics, English, information technology, etc. Are all the interest projects in today's society in full swing? In order not to let the children lose at the starting line, mothers worked hard.