Denmark is one of the developed countries in Europe and one of the most famous high welfare countries in the world. The high welfare supported by the high tax policy provides the Danish people with free education, medical insurance, unemployment relief and other benefits, which makes the society peaceful and stable and people's lives worry-free. Therefore, Denmark has one of the lowest crime rates in the world.
In addition, compared with other high-welfare countries in northern Europe, Danes are more advanced in thinking, and many people think that children's "solitude" is conducive to cultivating their sense of independence.
But young Danish parents also face a thorny problem, that is, they always forget to bring their children back. At this time, the police become the best nannies. They will send the children who have not been picked up in the street for a long time or the children who are sleeping on the lawn home one by one.
China: If a child is disobedient and does something wrong, parents will inevitably reach out and hit him in a rage, and his ass will bear the brunt. Because I hit my head, I am worried that I will make a big mistake if I miss it; Hit the face, broken and swollen, the child can't go out to see people; It is also easy to dislocate and fracture when you hit your arms and legs. In short, parents think that the ass is not the key part, so it should be no problem to hit it twice. As everyone knows, the child's ass can't be beaten.
First of all, spanking may cause brain stem damage in children. The human brain consists of four parts: brain, diencephalon, brain stem and cerebellum. The brain tissue is located in the cranial cavity, and the skull is connected with the human spine through the atlanto-occipital joint. If parents spank their children too hard and too hard, the children's buttocks are suddenly hit. This violent impact can be transmitted to the atlanto-occipital joint through the spine, which may cause the whole skull deformation and brain stem injury. The consequences are unimaginable.
Pay more attention to boys who spank. Parents usually put their children to bed before hitting them. Because children struggle and swing, they may be injured by the edge of the bed or other objects, resulting in hematoma or testicular damage. There are also some parents who are angry at the moment and beat their children with hard objects such as belts and feather dusters, which will cause local hematoma in gluteal muscles, poor blood circulation and even necrotizing inflammation. In the chaos of beating children, parents may accidentally injure their children's head, chest and other organs, bringing unimaginable serious consequences.
Spanking not only makes children suffer, but also leaves a shadow in their hearts. When parents beat their children, they usually consider not to break the key points, and rarely consider that children also have dignity and have a psychological tolerance for their parents' lessons. Children are naturally fragile, sensitive and vulnerable. Angry reprimands and rude behaviors of parents often lead to disharmony between parents and children, and even a permanent gap between parents and children.
If parents are forced to spank their children to teach them a lesson, they must pay attention to the following questions:
First, children under two years old are still not sensible and can't tell good from bad. Parents should never use spanking education. Because this will not only fail to achieve the goal, but will make children feel scared.
The second is to pick up the child when playing, and then spank him. Don't pat him too hard to avoid damaging other body tissues.
Also, when spanking your child, don't forget to turn your back on your parents, so as not to let your child see the terrible face of your parents when they are angry. At the same time, parents can't see their children's faces and can calm down. Maybe on second thought, they put down their raised hands.