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How much does the change of children's thoughts have to do with family education?
The change of children's thoughts is probably caused by family education. Parents' education is related to children's thoughts, and what kind of thoughts you pass on to him is what kind of person he may become. Of course, this is uncertain. Take sex education as an example. Many parents deliberately don't explain to their children. As a result, children have this kind of thinking when they grow up, and they don't understand anything, which affects themselves and harms others.

1. Instill parents' thoughts Nowadays, many parents will instill some thoughts in their children when they educate them. As a rural person, my parents told me from an early age that my family had little money and wanted me to work hard to make money. Instilled by this idea, I gradually became an inferior person and felt that I was completely different from others. Although I know I have such a personality, it is difficult to change it. Ideological indoctrination has become the main reason for the formation of children's character. Actually, I'm not the only one Many families will educate their children like this. They don't understand the inferiority complex of children when they grow up. Parents must pay attention to the way of educating their children.

2. Lack of sex education. Sex education in China is scarce. Many people's understanding of sex is only two words, that is, shameless and obscene. Nowadays, many parents are unwilling to talk about sex with their children, which leads to their children being biased by online thoughts at a young age. At present, primary and secondary school students in many areas begin to fall in love, and even have corresponding behaviors, which are caused by the lack of sex education. Parents don't want to teach, children can only explore by themselves. And some people don't know the harm, and they are on the road of no return at a young age. There are also some acts of sexual asphyxia, and there are more and more such cases in China.

3. Parents don't educate. Compared with parents' improper education, there is another kind of parents who don't educate. Some families are more complicated, and parents don't have much time to take care of their children, so they let their children grow up alone or give them to their grandparents for care. As a result, children lack fatherly love and maternal love since childhood, and their personality is different from other children. The influence of this difference is different, some will make people lonely, and some will lead to inner darkness. Family education is directly related to the development of children's personality and the change of children's thoughts.