The simple expression of appetite is eating. In the eyes of children, you can eat anything. He can eat hands, thumb and forefinger, forefinger and middle finger, and the whole hand. He also eats toys, his favorite transformers, and even his sleeves.
At this time, most parents will stop their children from this kind of behavior, but in fact, what parents do is completely wrong and urgent? Eat? Just to get psychological satisfaction, a child is like a mouse born with a hole. If you stop him, you will destroy his internal balance.
Educators find that when children are psychologically unsatisfied when they are young, it is difficult for them to concentrate on doing one thing like children who skip classes when they grow up, which is probably the reason.
Therefore, in order to cultivate children's concentration, parents should treat the problem of children eating their hands normally and create a healthy living environment for their children. Finally, when children make changes and progress, they should be affirmed and encouraged in time.
3-4 years old: during the sensitive period of space, the imagination develops greatly.
During this period, children like to pile wood, pile it up and push it down, pile it up and push it down again and again; I also like to take things out of bottles and jars, or put things in bottles, put them in and pour them out, and repeat them over and over again.
During this period, children are feeling their own bodies, including hands, feet, skin and muscles. They are sensing the relationship between the whole body and the outside world; At the same time, children will have their own judgments about safety and danger, and parents need not worry too much.
Parents should keep smiling and accompany their children to do these hands-on activities to help them cultivate their imagination.
5-6 years old: the sensitive period of order and the forming period of good habits.
Once things are arranged properly, children will take pains to do it every day, but everything must be in an orderly way, and no mistakes can be made in any link, and the order cannot be disrupted. Otherwise, they will have to start over.
Judging from the performance of children, we always find them unreasonable. For example, when packaging toys, you must follow the order; For another example, everyone should wear their own shoes at home. In fact, this is all because children learn and summarize some principles and laws of doing things through repeated drills, and it is also a manifestation of gaining a sense of security through the stability of things.
The biggest advantage is that it is easy to help children develop good habits, and at the same time, they can find some hobbies and specialties of children.
7-8 years old: sensitive period of self-awareness, outstanding personality.
Start from scratch? No? From fighting with them to imitating others, children gradually have a sense of self. At this time, the child will take the initiative to divide things into? Mine? As a result,? Yours has become particularly clear, which is what we often call ownership consciousness. Meanwhile, by saying? No? To show your will, once you don't like it, you will cry and make a scene.
At this time, the child's performance is completely self-centered. He will like to correct his parents' words, such as: the teacher didn't say so; For another example, children will strictly control their toys and clothes and forbid others to move. Is he right at this time? Possession? Particularly interested.
This is actually not a bad thing. Why? Is the child speaking through his own understanding? No? I am confirming my thoughts through my own persistence. At this time, although my idea may be a simple relationship between myself and others, it is very important for them as children.
What parents have to do is also very simple: first, allow their children to have personality; Second, guide children to correctly establish their personality; Third, teach children the importance of sharing through their own actions!
This is a child's life? Eight years of gold? It is the most critical stage of learning and cognition, but it is a pity that most parents ignore it and do not adopt the correct method. I'm sorry.