1. What can children get from sharing? That kind of sharing is not only an idea, but also something substantial. For example, after we share food with others, they may share other things with us, so sharing can let children get these things. Most importantly, sharing can make a person feel happy. This kind of thing cannot be replaced by other things. For children, if he can feel the feelings brought by sharing, he can also understand how happy sharing is. Sharing is also a kind of communication, and it can also make children understand how important this ability is in the process of interacting with others. In the process of communicating with others, we are actually based on sharing. So in general, parents should also learn to share with their children.
Second, parents should also learn to share. If children want to understand that sharing is also an education, even sharing is a very happy thing. Parents should also learn to share with their children. Many children will share their interesting stories at school with their parents when they are young, but when they grow up, they will find that they are unwilling to talk about them. This is also a very common phenomenon, but we have to understand that maybe this is because we didn't share it with our children, or the children didn't get happiness and didn't get some response in the process of sharing it with us.
Then it is meaningless for children to share with their parents, and they will not continue. Therefore, when children share with us, we should respond positively. For some children, the purpose of sharing is actually to get parents' response. And in the process of interacting with children, parents can also learn to share with their children.
Third, the essence of sharing is to share this matter with the child's heart. In fact, it is also necessary to follow the child's heart. For example, children like to play with toys when guests come home. At this time, maybe they will take it directly from our children. If the parents are on the other side at this time, let the children learn to share and give it directly to others. This is not a good thing for children, nor does it respect children, and he can't learn to share.
When parents face these problems, the first thing to do is to ask their children if they are willing to share them with others. If we like, we will follow her advice. If she refuses, then we should protect the child's thoughts instead of letting him learn to share. Therefore, in the process of educating children to learn to share, the most important thing for us is to ask his opinion and tell him our opinion.