Parent-child communication
Parents will find it difficult to communicate with children who are obviously rebellious. We need to take part in more children's activities.
Respect for children
Parents should not always stare at their children's shortcomings. Don't compare children's shortcomings with other children's strengths. When touching a child, parents should try their best to discover the advantages of the child and encourage the child to reduce his resistance to his parents.
Transposition consideration
Parents also came from the rebellious period of youth, but their children are not obvious, so in the face of their inexplicable behavior, we might as well put ourselves in the shoes and think about why children are like this. With empathy, you will understand the child and find the crux of the problem.
Avoid talking about grades.
When communicating with children, parents should not always focus on learning, which will only make children feel pressure and doubt the motivation of parents to communicate. When communicating, parents can start with family affairs and stabilize their children's emotions before getting down to business.
Stabilize mood
It is certainly irrational for parents to educate their children with emotions, which will lead to more resistance of children. Therefore, parents should not educate their children when they are impatient, irritable and not calm. After you calm down, you can communicate with your children.
♀? Allowable error
This stage is a critical period for children to form their ideas. Small mistakes are inevitable, so parents should promise their children to make some mistakes, suffer some losses, and don't tie their children's limbs too much. Parents together are the best role models for children. Children in the period of betrayal have strong imitation ability, and parents' excellent words and deeds can exert a subtle influence on children.
Children's burden reduction
Mom and dad want their children to succeed. Even some parents impose their unfulfilled expectations on their children, and their children have to carry out training they don't want when they come back from school, so that their children can't get good energy to relax, which brings great energy pressure to their children, which leads to their boredom with life and the early arrival of the rebellious period. I hope parents can let their children study and give them proper time to play.