Nowadays, people have misunderstandings in raising children, and even do the opposite. First, scores are important. I hope my children can get into a good university. A good university is certainly good, but Ford is more important. Parents should understand that Ford is more important than grades and education. The following is the education I brought to you. Children depend on Ford. Welcome to reading.

Teach children to rely on Ford.

The so-called "life is only three meters, and it is impossible to travel all over the world." Suppose this person only had a hundred thousand blessings in his last life. If his parents loved him since childhood, they would buy a school for him to read. Before he graduated from college, he had spent100000. It will be difficult for him to make money after graduation. Educate children in class, and don't let them learn to be extravagant. It's your money that looks like flowers, but what you lose is actually his blessing. Many people are beautiful when they are young, but they are miserable when they grow up. Blessing is spent on the scenery. The ancients said that to cultivate the luck of the elderly, young people should not covet happiness.

To educate children, we must know how to find the roots. Filial piety is good for parents, and children naturally obey. Talk back to your parents, and your children will talk back to you in the future. Three generations are inseparable from the causal cycle. It is a blessing for the elderly and elders to spoil the "little emperor" in turn. In the laws of the universe, many are irreplaceable. Children's blessings are gone, and they have to cultivate themselves slowly. You can't replace it.

In Futian, the elders are our Futian, so we should respect them. Nowadays, people care more about their children than their parents. In the future, when children grow up and have children, they will care more about them than about you. Care has turned into doting, and the blessings will be lost faster from generation to generation. This is the causal cycle.

The ancients said, don't think about leaving money for children. Children are promising, and it is useless for you to keep money; If you leave him money, he will not be happy. What do you want to keep, Liu De? It is the best and so-called blessed offspring.

I have seen many people do good deeds, fast and recite Buddha, and their descendants are very good. Master's father is called Li locally, and monk Xu Yun's father is also called Xiao. As the ancients said, you can't be rich for three generations, and money will always be spent. It is impossible to stay rich forever by heirlooms. The rich will become poor, the poor will work hard and become virtuous, and the blessings will become rich.

Nowadays, people like to spend a lot of money on their children and expect to get a good education. Education in the world is also very good. But the best education is Ford's education. Giving children Ford education is more than just knowledge and technology education. Therefore, educating children is to let them learn how to accumulate goodness in Xiu De. Children should be taught to give, not to enjoy, to cultivate happiness, not to harm morality. We can't think that if we give money, the children will have no money, and God will not treat people badly. What you give out is money, and what you get back is virtue, which will naturally benefit future generations.

The ancients were modest, and there was a saying that they didn't like or be happy, and there was another saying that they didn't get anything without pains. Nowadays, parents are afraid of their children's suffering, and just want to provide them with a "worry-free" economic condition, even thinking about how much money to leave for their children, even by illegal means. But are children really "blessed"? Do they have enough credit to bear this "reward"? As the old saying goes, "Suffering hardships means taking tonics", so children should have more opportunities to exercise and grow, and have more opportunities to experience and accumulate wealth by themselves. Life is fair, and no one can replace anyone. Sometimes life and sometimes death, sometimes pain and sometimes joy. How does a person live his life? Only he can feel happiness and sadness. Parents are always worried about their children's life and wish they could buy a whole life insurance for their children. Too many people are busy accumulating wealth and fame for their children, and their task is to study credits. As we all know, fame and fortune will not last long, and academic qualifications and scores cannot measure a person's future path. Virtue is the most fundamental blessing of being a man. To cultivate children, it is necessary to cultivate their virtues, and having enough happiness is the life insurance for children.

A short story about educating children to rely on Ford.

There is a story that Zhu Yuanzhang went to a farmer's house when he was not developed, and gave him a bowl of tea when he was hungry. He was very moved when he drank it. Zhu Yuanzhang became emperor and gave the farmer an official position. Local scholars don't believe it. Say: ten years in a cold window is not as good as a bowl of tea. He studied hard in a cold window for ten years, but he didn't have an official position. He gave him a bowl of tea and handed it to him. Zhu Yuanzhang listened and said: He is not as good as you, and your life is not as good as him.

Ladies and gentlemen, slowly, after you experience it, you will understand that life and peace are two different things. It is good to have a bad life. People should have an opinion about fate. First, respect fate. People have great wealth and study for several lives. I made a lot of money without going to sea. In fact, there is nothing for no reason.

We often say that we are confident and believe in ourselves. But you know, believing in yourself has two meanings. First of all, believe that you can change something. Second, I believe you have an unchangeable part. This is what God can change. If you only believe that you can change everything, it is madness. You know, you have an unchangeable part. If you want to change him, you have to work dozens or even hundreds of times more than ordinary people.

Most people read Buddhism, such as For Fan Fan under the temptation, which says that Mr. Fan changed his destiny by learning Buddhism. But we don't know how hard Teacher Fan has worked to change it. He has done 3,000 great deeds, not ordinary little deeds. Can reach the realm of Mr. Fan, but also a bodhisattva. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, you have to pay a lot, so be prepared.

Second, why there are unchangeable parts. It's fate. Karmic habits are different. If he is a mediocre scholar, you can just give him a cram school. He knows nothing about music, but you let him learn piano. These are all wrong. People should conform to their destiny. Yuan Mei of the Qing Dynasty said that it was too late to read in my life. Those who can read have never read a book in their whole lives. Like Bai Juyi, he knew every word from birth. This is what the industry learned in the past. Just as you want to learn Buddhism, you have never been influenced by Buddhism in your predecessor's life. In this life, you are dizzy and not interested in Buddhism.

How to change karma? Is it because children can't read that they don't have to worry? Or force him to go to cram school? Both methods are wrong. To change karma, we must change it from his fate. Now people are so smart that everyone likes to use their brains to deal with problems, absorb problems and analyze them. This is very problematic.

What is part of fate? You want him to study, not to develop his brain, but to develop his spirituality. Enlightenment of Buddhism is about the complete development of spirituality. When you are spiritually developed, your ability to absorb and digest will also be enhanced. In the past, my ancestors didn't know much about literacy, but through the worship of scriptures, the karma was eliminated, and I remembered all the scriptures I have read in my life. I can also give lectures. Shen Meng, an old monk, spent 33 years in prison before coming out at the age of 60 or 70. I haven't read the Bible for over thirty years. What shall we do? He asked for water in the earth and bodhisattva in the earth. Sure enough, he soon remembered everything he had learned in the past.

I don't think adults need to worry too much about children's reading. You can't transform him with your strength. This is his destiny, and you can't change it. You must change your life by yourself. Only teach him to do good and accumulate virtue, and you also do good and accumulate virtue. This is fate, and fate must be overwhelmed before it can be changed. Reading is very important, but he must have a life of reading. If someone meets satellites, he will study hard. His predecessor is a scholar. Adults should relax, take care of the elderly and do some good things in their spare time. Naturally, he will be all right. Don't put too much love and selfishness on a child, it will hurt his good luck.

Educating children can be taught from a small place, and the big place really has to conform to heaven. It is not inspired by people's wealth. People can't fully educate their children. Only do good deeds to accumulate virtues and leave them to children. It's more practical to let God take care of him.